Adaptive or Maladaptive
Why We Cope This Way
Types of Unhealthy Coping
How to Unlearn
100

Instead of confronting your boss about your workload, you go home and eat a whole pizza while binge-watching TV.

What is maladaptive?

100

One reason that unhealthy coping mechanisms are harmful is...

- Raise risk for (mental) health problems

- Negatively impact relationships

- Ignores underlying problems or emotions

- Stops emotional/psychological growth

- Creates larger problems in long-term

100

Rather than process difficult emotions, you cut yourself off from friends, family, and the outside world entirely.

What is social withdrawal/isolation?

100

Step one to change: noticing when you’re reaching for that unhealthy habit.

What is self-awareness?


200

Talking to a trusted friend about your feelings instead of bottling them up.

What is adaptive?

200

Our past experiences may lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms by... 

What is shaping how we respond to stress and teaching us patterns that feel safe but are harmful? 

200

This coping style involves spending hours gaming, scrolling, or streaming to escape real-life problems.

What is excessive screen time?

200

Writing down your triggers and your reactions to them can help you spot patterns to change.

What is journaling?

300

You tell yourself you’ll “just play one game” online, and suddenly it’s 3 a.m. and tomorrow’s meeting is doomed.

What is maladaptive?

300
Attachment styles (how we learn to form relationships) may lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms by...

What is not providing healthy examples of good coping skills or interfering with healthy relationships (lack of support system)?

300

Some deal with stress by buying things they don’t need, racking up debt faster than they can say “next-day delivery.”

What is compulsive shopping/spending?

300

This professional can guide you through replacing harmful coping with healthier strategies.

What is a therapist?


400

Exercising regularly to reduce stress and boost your mood.

What is adaptive?


400

Trauma may lead to unhealthy coping mechanims by...

What is triggering defense mechanisms or overwhelming us so that we seek escape or avoidance? 

400

This self-destructive pattern involves hurting yourself physically to deal with emotional pain.

What is self-harm?

400

Instead of stress-eating, you take a short walk or drink water — an example of this process.

What is substitution? 

500

Taking deep breaths before giving a presentation.

What is adaptive?

500

Culture can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms by...

What shapes our perception of stressors and difficult emotions in unhealthy ways? 

500
Using a mind-altering substance to escape from stressors.

What is substance abuse or addiction?

500

Unlearning unhealthy coping often requires repeating new habits until they become this.

What is practice?