Roadblocks & Avenues to Communication
Knowing Yourself & Identity
11 Developmental Tasks
Six Stages of Spiritual Growth.
Handling Conflicts
Six Images of the Church
100

Acting on the assumption that the other person will not hurt us or disappoint us 


Avenue : Trust 

100

The healthy ability to shape your own life 

Autonomy 

100

To become more independent physicall, financially, intellectually, emotionally

Becoming Autonomous 

100

Storytelling ( pass on faith story) 

Stage 2 Literal Faith ( 7 to early teens)

100

Name of principle to deal with conflict : People feel the same way you do

DO UNTO OTHERS

100

A social organization with leaders and rules that govern it

Institution 

200

We enter into a conversation with someone because we hope it will have a desirable outcome

Avenue : Hope

200
transitional period, breaking away from parents and adopting practices and views of a different group 

Groupthink

200

Childhood values directed by parents, school, church are challenged 

Constructing out value system

200

Group Influence, Conforms to values and expectations of group

Stage 3 Group Faith ( teens to mid-20s) 

200

Name the principle for dealing with conflict : speak to the person whom you are in conflict with 

GO TO THE SOURCE

200
The catechism refers to the family as the "domestic church" and it recognizes that the home is the "first school of christian life"

Teacher

300

being right becomes more important than understanding or relating 

Roadblock : Win Lose Attitude 
300

Desire to be free of their own family, signing a contract into another family

Jailbreak marriage 

300

Personal search for faith

Reflecting on religion

300

Personal responsibility for beliefs, tension with family/friends and grey areas 

Stage 4 - Personal Faith ( mid-20s and older)

300

Name the principle for dealing with conflict : Don't act on rumours 

GET FACTS STRAIGHT

300

deepest vocation of the church is to respond to the prayer of Jesus that "we all may be one"

Community 

400
we insist on seeing evidence that communication will involve no risk before we attempt to relate to another person 

Roadblock : Self Protection

400

Genes have a strong influence on who you are

Genetic 

400
determining how to use leisure time in best way for you

using leisure time for renewal 

400
Awareness of Gods inner presence, communion with God
Stage 5 Mystical Faith ( age no longer a factor)
400

Name the principle for dealing with conflict : State the problem clearly, search for solutions and evaluate

TAKE A PROBLEM-SOLVING APPROACH

400

Love for the poor is a constant part of her tradition

Servant 

500

When someone states their thoughts, wishes and feelings 

Avenue : I Message 

500

Major historical events, accidents, chance of meeting ect

Circumstances 

500

developing skills for life work

Selecting a career and taking adult job

500
Welcoming God like dependable parent 

Stage 1 Imaginative Faith (Birth to 7 years)

500

Strive to influence their society towards working for the common good

Advocate