Social skills/
being respectful
being respectful
What are 2 social skills?
communications, listening carefully, sharing, problem solving, leadership, decision making, self control, empathy, be positive
"Your hair looks messed up today."
"Here, let me help you fix your hair."
"Here, let me help you fix your hair."
The teacher asks Dan to sit in his seat.
Dan sits in his seat, but then gets up to talk to his friend.
Is Dan following directions?
No.
Is this constructive criticism or Unhelpful feedback?
"Your Picture is not great."
Unhelpful feedback
List three things you like to talk about...
(Insert any subject)
You got angry when the other team scored a touch down. What social skill should you use?
self control, control your emotions, be positive.
What are 3 positive qualities you strive to be?
Good. Intelligent. Friendly. Kind. smart. happy. Strong. Awesome. Positive. uplifting. generous. cool. (List continues)
When is the best time to follow a direction?
The first time.
Is this constructive criticism or Unhelpful feedback?
"I like your picture, I just wish it had more shading."
Constructive criticism
Steve was scribbling on the desk during 3rd period. Bob saw him do it. Should he report this? or Mind his own buisness?
MYOB
Timmy sat down in class then began clicking his pen while the teacher was talking. What respectful behavior SHOULD Timmy be doing?
Jenny told Suzie that she wanted waffle fries for dinner. Suzie responded that she hated waffle fries, but that she would try to get some for Jenny.
Is Suzie being positive or negative? (why?)
Positive. (Because she is helping her friend)
When might you need to follow directions?
When you are given an assignment in school.
When there is an emergency.
When cooking a recipe.
How should you react to constructive criticism?
Take a minute to think about it. Then thank the person for their help. (even if you don't agree)
Donny is talking about attacking someone at soccer practice. What should you do?
Report it.
Why are social skills important?
Help you be successful at school and in life by properly communicating.
How can you rephrase this statement to be positive? "I don't want to do my Home work! It's to hard!"
Example: "I'm going to try my best on my Homework, and ask for help if I get stuck."
When would be a time where you have to work with others?
On a school project.
At a job.
Alysha told Josh that she loved bears, but Josh did not like bears.
What should he do?
1. was I involved?
2. was I invited?
3. Is it dangerous?
List 2 respectful behaviors...
Listening. Be quiet. Responding when called on. Staying on task. Staying in your seat. Following directions.
"Stop asking me that question, You are so annoying!"
"Please be patient, I will help you when I get a chance."
What are the 3 most important rules when working with others? (Get 2 of 3 at least)
Respect each other.
Listen to everyone.
Everyone do their fair share.
Jessica said that Cheeseburgers are the best food. Steven does not agree with what Jessica said. How could he tell her this?
I can see your point but...
I respect your opinion but...
Cheeseburgers are cool, but I prefer...
What does MYOB stand for?
Mind your own business