Healthy/Unhealthy Relationships
Name 1 healthy and 1 unhealthy relationship characteristic.
healthy relationships:
• Mutual Respect, Trust, Honesty, Compromise, Individuality, Good Communication, Anger Control, Fighting Fair, Problem Solving, Understanding, Self Confidence, Being a Role Model, Healthy Sexual Relationship.
unhealthy relationships:
• Control, Hostility, Dishonesty, Disrespect, Dependence, Intimidation, Physical Violence, Sexual Violence, Lying, Gaslighting, Grooming.
The RELATE Assessment assesses how many areas?
10
What are the 3 bacterial infections we learned about?
Chlamydia, Syphilis and Gonorrhea
Which mate selection theory is this?
Clara is a meticulous planner who thrives on structure, while her partner, Max, is more spontaneous and laid-back. At first, their differences cause some friction, but they soon realize that their contrasting traits enhance their relationship. Clara appreciates how Max helps her loosen up and embrace spontaneity, while Max values Clara's ability to bring order to his sometimes chaotic life.
Complementary Needs
Baxter discussed the 4 types of disengagement strategies. People often break up in _____ or Indirect ways.
Direct
This scenario is an example of which healthy relationship characteristic?
During their vacation planning, Rachel and Ben have different ideas about where to go. Rachel wants a beach getaway, while Ben prefers a hiking trip. They discuss their preferences and agree to spend part of the trip at the beach and part in the mountains, ensuring both their interests are met and enhancing their experience together.
Compromise
What are the three reasons people date?
Socialization
Recreation
Mate Selection
What are the 4 Viral STDs we learned about?
HPV, HSV, HIV/Aids and Hep B
The following is an example of which mate selection theory:
Emily and Jake meet at a coffee shop and quickly hit it off. As they spend time together, they go through a filtering process, where they assess each other based on various criteria. Initially, they focus on surface-level traits, such as physical attraction and shared interests in music. Over time, they delve deeper, discussing their values, life goals, and family backgrounds. Emily discovers that Jake is ambitious and shares her desire for a stable future, while Jake appreciates Emily’s kindness and strong family ties. This filtering process helps them decide to pursue a serious relationship, as they align on deeper, more meaningful characteristics.
Filtering Theory
Baxter discussed the 4 types of disengagement strategies. People often break up in Other or _____ oriented ways.
Self
The following scenario is an example of which healthy relationship characteristic:
Both Emma and Jake encourage each other to pursue personal interests outside of their relationship. Emma takes a pottery class, while Jake joins a hiking group. They celebrate each other's achievements, recognizing the importance of maintaining individuality while still being supportive partners.
Individuality
What is self-disclosure?
Sharing your thoughts, emotions, preferences, values and dreams and vulnerabilities.
Rape is a type of Sexual ____________ (assault or harassment)?.
Assault
Which mate selection theory is this an example of?
Sarah and David meet as neighbors in the same apartment building. Their initial interactions are casual—exchanging pleasantries in the hallway and sharing the occasional elevator ride. Over time, they start running into each other more frequently at the building’s common areas, like the gym and rooftop. As they spend more time together, they develop a friendship that blossoms into a romantic relationship. Their close physical proximity allows them to build familiarity and comfort, ultimately leading to a deeper connection.
Theory of Propinquity
Which is the healthiest way to break up?
Direct-Other
The following scenario is an example of which unhealthy relationship quality?
Nina often feels confused about her feelings and memories after conversations with her partner, Sam. When she brings up her concerns, Sam dismisses her experiences, suggesting she’s overreacting or imagining things. Nina begins to doubt her perception of reality, feeling increasingly anxious and isolated.
Gaslighting
What is the difference between love and infatuation?
LOVE
→ An intense feeling of deep affection and care
INFATUATION
→ An intense but short lived passion or attraction for someone
What 3 threats might someone use as a form of manipulation to make you stay in a relationship?
self-harm, suicide, blackmail
Which mate selection theory is this an example of?
Sophie and Liam meet at a university orientation event. The timing is perfect; both are freshmen starting new chapters in their lives. They find themselves seated next to each other during icebreaker activities, leading to spontaneous conversations and a natural connection. After the orientation, they continue to bump into each other at classes and campus events.
Time and Place Theory
Ruth beats around the bush when trying to break up with her partner. While nothing is directly said, she lets her partner know how she really doesn't want to hurt them and cares how they feel. Which disengagement strategy is this?
Indirect-Other
The following is an example of which unhealthy relationship characteristic?
Mike often raises his voice and slams doors when he’s upset, creating a tense atmosphere in the house. Although he hasn’t physically harmed his partner, Lisa feels afraid during these outbursts, unsure of how he will react. She starts to tiptoe around him, avoiding topics that might trigger his anger.
Intimidation
What are the 3 elements of Sternberg’s Triangle Theory?
Committment
Passion
Intimacy
Describe the Violence Cycle.
Which mate selection theory is this an example of?
As Trudy dated Rhett, she weighed the benefits of their relationship: He came from a great family. He had a stable occupation. He was kind. While there were some costs in the relationship-He was obsessed with sports. He struggled to clean up after himself- Trudy felt the benefits outweighed the costs.
Social Exchange Theory
Partner A asked to meet Partner B in person. Upon seeing Partner B, Partner A shouted out, "I am done, I don't want to be with you anymore. I want to break up." and then immediately left.
Which strategy is this an example of?
Direct-Self