Values in Action
If I value kindness, I can show it by using a _______ tone of voice when talking to others.
Kind, friendly, or gentle
True/False: The way I say something (my tone) can change how people feel about my message.
True
True/False: If someone says it’s okay after I apologize, I should keep saying sorry.
False
What is one thing you can say if you want to learn more about why someone thinks a certain way?
“Can you tell me more?” or “Why do you think that?”
True/False: If I value honesty, I should always say exactly what I think, even if it might hurt someone’s feelings.
False (You can be honest and still be kind and thoughtful in your words.)
True/False: If I want to offer help, I can say, “Would you like some help?” instead of “You need help.”
True
Fill in the Blank: One sincere _______ is enough.
apology
True/False: You have to say “I respect your opinion” even if the person is saying something bigoted or harmful.
False (You can disagree without being rude, but you don't have to validate a harmful belief.)
Name one way you can show respect for someone else’s opinion, even if you disagree.
Listen, don’t interrupt, say “I see it differently” or "Can you tell me more about why you think that?"
Your friend looks frustrated and stressed out, what can you say?
"Are you okay?" or "Can I help you?" (with a caring tone)
What can you can do to move on if you feel bad after a mistake? (a) Keep apologizing, (b) Take a deep breath, remind yourself everyone makes mistakes
b
If a stranger in public says something offensive or bigoted, what is a safe way to stay true to your values without getting into an argument?
(a) Choose not to respond at all and move away from the person, if possible
(b) Start explaining why their comment is wrong and try to convince them to change their mind.
a.