What are the three R's of Bullying
Recognize, Refuse, Report
Name 3 of the 8 never-nevers
never-never
touch a gun
play with fire
ride on wheels without a helmet
go in water without an older person watching
use sharp tools without an older person's help
ride in a car without wearing a seatbelt
touch a dog without asking the person in charge
cross the street without checking all ways for traffic
What is a quality of a good friend?
respect
trust
believing each other
honesty
What is integrity?
Doing the right thing even when no one is watching.
When you say you are going to do something, you do it.
What does STEP stand for?
Say the problem
Think of solutions
Explore consequences
Pick the best solution
What is the definition of bullying?
When someone is mean to another on purpose ad happens over and over.
What are the ways to stay safe
Recognize, refuse, report
What is a sign of an unhealthy relationship?
gaming up
bossy
getting even
threatening
blaming
Give an example of what it looks like to show integrity
What is the most important thing you need to do first before a problem can be solved?
What kind of voice do we need to use when we refuse and report bullying?
Strong, respectful voice
What should you do if you feel uncomfortable?
Refuse and report
no
How does honesty relate to integrity?
Honesty: being open and honest, trustworthy
Integrity: when your words and actions match.
Give me an example of a blaming statement
you made me
you never...
because of you...
you are always...
Bullying or not bullying: You get the ball first. A student grabs it out of your hands and says, "You had it yesterday. I get it today!"
not bullying
What are the three types of touches
safe, unsafe and unwanted
In a healthy relationship, we need to stop and think about our thoughts before we speak them. What were the three gates of questions we need to ask ourselves before we speak?
Is it kind?
Is it necessary?
Is it true?
You are in the bathroom and your friends talking about what they are doing after school. What do you do?
Why do we restate the problem without blame?
describes the problem with out making others feel angry.
What is the difference between reporting bullying and tattling/snitching?
Tattling/snitching is to get someone else in trouble. Reporting is to keep you and others safe.
Who should you talk to if you feel uncomfortable?
trusted adult
We discussed being on a circle with our emotions. Describe the circle of security.
bottom of circle-in the muck
top of the circle-feeling good
You find $5 on the sidewalk outside of school. What do you do?
What are the steps to taking responsibility for our actions?
Admitting what we did wrong
Apologizing
Making amends