Mind Masters
Chill Zone
Talk the Talk
Mind Filters
Relationship Goals
100

This "mind" is the balance between the emotional mind and rational mind.

The Wise Mind

100

In the 54321 grounding exercise, you name this many things you can see.

5

100

This communication style considers both your feelings and the feelings of others.

Assertive Communication

100

Mental health "filters" do what to the information our brain takes in

Distorts it

100

In healthy relationships, people respect each other's what?

Boundaries

200

These types of thoughts are usually exaggerated, negative, and happen automatically.

Automatic Negative Thoughts

200

HALT reminds us to check if we are Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or what?

Tired

200

An "I Statement" starts with I "feel" followed by "when ____", "because____", and finally what?

"What I need/would like"

200

In the Circle of Control, things you can control include actions, words, and what?

Attitude

200

What is an example of a healthy behavior or thought in a relationship?

Ex: We both apologize when we are wrong, we communicate our wants and needs, I feel safe with them, I don't try to be someone else when we are together, we both engage in compromise.

300

Changing "I'll never be good at this" to "I am learning more each time" is an example of this.

Reframing

300

Name one healthy coping skill that doesn't involve avoiding your problems.

Ex: Journaling, practicing a breathing exercise, going on a walk, petting my dog/cat, eating a sour candy

300

When using active listening, you should avoid doing this while the other person is talking.

Interrupting

300
Name one thing that is outside of your Circle of Control.

Ex: Other people's opinions, what people think about me, the past

300

One sign of an unhealthy relationship where someone tries to control your time or choices is called what?

Controlling Behavior

400

The term for negative thoughts that are exaggerated and based on distorted thinking.

Blue Thoughts

400

This grounding skill involves focusing on your breathing and noticing the inhale/exhale.

Mindful breathing

400

The three main communication styles are passive, assertive, and what?

Aggressive

400

The "all or nothing" thinking filter is also called this.

Black and white thinking

400

True or False: Healthy relationships never have disagreements.

False

500

Give one example of how to rephrase "I can't do anything right" into a more helpful statement.

Ex: "I can try my best and learn from the outcome" "I might not be able to do it right now, but if I keep working at it, I will eventually."

500

List all 5 senses used in the 54321 grounding method

Sight, Sound, Touch, Smell, and Taste

500

Turn "You always ignore me" into an "I statement".

Ex: "I feel unheard when I'm interrupted, and I would like to finish my thought before you respond."

500

Name two different types of mental health filters.

overgeneralization, catasrophizing

500

What are the characteristics of a healthy relationship?

Trust, Respect, Communication, Honesty, and Compromise.