The What's
What is a conflict most people might experience?
What is conflicts on the playground, with friends, with family, pushing, etc.?
How do you feel if you are having a conflict with someone?
What is uncomfortable, bad, etc.?
Your friend has been spending a lot of time with someone else instead of you. You feel angry.
What is calm down and talk it out using "I" messages?
Who is someone you could talk to about helping to solve a conflict you were involved in?
What is my teacher, parent, school counselor, yard duty, etc.?
What is a healthy way of handling anger?
What is take deep breaths, take a walk, drink water, squeeze a stress ball, draw, etc.?
How might someone who is being teased for their physical looks feel?
What is sad, alone, etc.?
Gary is upset that Tina won't play with him at recess. Gary takes Tina's ball away and won't give it back. Tina tells the teacher.
What is both can talk it out using "I" messages, i.e. Gary is sad that Tina will not play with him at recess and Tina is mad that he will not give her back the ball?
If someone is yelling at you, is it helpful to yell back?
What is it is not helpful to yell back?
What are three ways you can show respect to someone?
What is listen to them, be kind, and help them?
How would you define hurtful behavior?
What is behavior that is purposely trying to hurt others, for example: hitting, saying mean things, gossiping, making fun of, pushing, spitting, etc.?
Henry is upset that the schedule changed and he won't have gym. He kicks Kylie's desk and knock her project on the floor. Kylie starts crying.
What is Henry should tell Kylie that he is sorry for kicking her desk and knocking her project on the floor, next time, I promise to take a walk, drink water, etc. when I'm angry, how can I make it better?
Should a conflict be solved immediately or when we calm down?
What is when we calm down?
What can you say to someone who is saying hurtful things?
What is "I feel hurt and sad when you say hurtful things to me. Please do not say mean things to me" ?
How can conflict be positive?
What is gives us the opportunity to learn more about each other and makes us problem solvers?
Penny makes a joke at lunch about Gus forgetting his work. The joke really bothers Gus. He stops sitting with Penny. Penny is upset that Gus is not sitting with her.
What is Gus and Penny should talk it out using "I" messages?
Does saying, "just kidding!" after insulting someone make it okay?
What is it does not make it okay because your words are still hurtful?
What's an "I" message you can use if your friend ruins your favorite pencil?
What is "I feel like you do not care about me when you touch/break my things. Please do not use my things without asking" ?
How does avoiding all conflict hurt us?
What is conflict happens all the time, and by avoiding it, we will never learn, grow, or have strong relationships?
Jack, Brandon, and Miguel loves playing together, but they cannot decide on a game. Brandon refuses to play another other than soccer.
What is compromise, let Brandon play soccer with other people, etc.?
Does there always have to be a winner and loser in conflict?
What is there does not have to be a winner and loser in conflict due to compromise, talking it out, etc.?