What would you do?
Conflict
Personal space
Feelings
Teasing
100

Someone told you that your friend was talking about you at recess...

Talk it out 

100

At recess, your friend is playing with someone else and didn't say anything to you.

Go to another game, then talk it out later

100

Your friend keeps pulling your arm and trying to make you go where they want to go.

Tell them to stop then talk it out

100

Your friend keeps telling you what to do and not caring about your ideas or suggestions

Share and take take turns -- take turns choosing which activity to play and if that does not work -- join another game

100

When you got an answer wrong in class, your friend laughed at you

Ignore or tell them to stop

200

You heard two people whispering and you think you heard them say your name...

Wait & cool off and then talk it out

200

You lied to your friend about something

Apologize... How can we apologize well?

200

Your friend keeps going into your desk and using your pencils

Tell them to stop then talk it out OR if you are comfortable with sharing, share and take turns using your things

200

Your friend tells you that they feel left out during a game at recess

Apologize and talk it out

200

You and your friend were teasing each other for fun and then your feelings got hurt

Talk it out and tell them to stop

300

Your friend is teasing you about having a crush on someone...

Tell them to stop

300

Your friend pushed you at recess and started yelling at you

Wait and cool off then talk it out (or tell a teacher if talking it out doesn't work!)

300

Your friend tells you that you are standing way too close to them and it is making them uncomfortable

Apologize and give them space

300

Someone said you are not a good enough dancer to join their dance at recess

Tell them to stop and then go to another game

300

One of your friends keeps bragging about a new lipgloss she got at Sephora. She's teasing you and your other friends for not having the same one.

Tell them to stop teasing and then ignore & walk away

400

Your friend isn't talking to you at all and you have no idea why...

Talk it out and apologize if you've done something to upset them

400

Your friend has been calling you mean names during recess that you don't like

Tell them to stop and if they won't -- walk away or tell a teacher.

400

Someone keeps interrupting you when you try to talk

Wait and cool off and then tell them to stop

400

Your friend says she doesn’t want to play with you today, but you see her playing with someone else instead

Go to another game

400

Your friends are teasing someone about their new haircut...

Tell them to stop and encourage them to apologize

500

You told your friend a big secret and then they told some other kids...

Talk it out and tell them to stop

500

Your friend got mad at you for something you didn't even do. You can tell they are just having a bad day.

Ignore

500

Someone is making noises on purpose to annoy you

Wait and cool off or ignore

500

You really want to win a game, but your teammate made a mistake and lost the point

Wait and cool off

500
Your friend called you ugly at lunch

Tell them to stop, try to talk it out and if that doesn't work get a teacher