School
Home with Dad
Home with Mum
Sports
With Oscar
100

I don't understand a task the first time?

What might you do if you don't understand once it's been explained again?

100

When Dad and I get to spend 1-on-1 time together? 

What do we like to do together?

100

When mum and I get to spend 1-on-1 time together?

What do we like to do together?

100

We've won over a really difficult team?

Who do I share this sucess with? How do they react? 

100

Oscar and I have been in a fight?

What can I do to help our conflict?

200

My friends misunderstand what I have said?

How do I react?

200

Dad says something hurtful?

How long until I forgive him?

200

Mum says something hurtful?

How long until I forgive her?

200

I lose a game?

Who is able to comfort me?
200

Oscar is worried or scared about something?

Am I able to provide comfort?

300

I win an award at school?

Who do I share this success with? 

300

I think of the best times dad and I have spent together?

What's my favourite memory with dad?

300

I think of the best times mum and I have had together?

What is my favourite memory of time with mum?

300

I've played a really good game, but team mates have let me down?

How do I react? 

300

Oscar and I are getting along?

How often does this happen? What setting?

400

I don't do as well in a test as I was hoping in a test or assignment?

What do I do to make myself feel better?

400

Dad yells at me?

How do I respond to dad?
400

Mum yells at me?

How do I respond to mum?

400

I've been practicing and trying but don't improve.

What does my self-talk sound like?

400

I have to sit back so that Oscar can be supported?

What would I change about this situation?