Reality Ride
Defense Mechanisms
Labels
Desire, Time, Effort
Give an Example
100
The track that leads to Opportunity, Freedom and Self-Respect.
What is the "harder but worth it" track?
100
The ability to control my emotions, behaviors and desires.
What is self-control?
100
What do I want my label to be?
What is "Tearing Off Your Label" analogy?
100
Something you want - a passion, purpose or interest.
What is a Desire?
100
Negative self-talk.
What is "I'm so dumb", "I can't do this"? (or something similar)
200
My decisions have consequences.
What is the Reality Ride?
200
Fighting, yelling, using put-downs, etc.
What is a negative Defense Mechanism?
200
Trustworthy, kind, respectful, responsible, honest, etc.
What is an example of a positive label?
200
When you TRY.
What is Effort?
200
Positive Defense Mechanism.
What is "walking-away", "using a calm-voice"? (or something similar)
300
Home, School, Peers
What do the wheels on the roller coaster represent?
300
Walking away, speaking in a calm-voice, using self-control.
What is a positive Defense Mechanism?
300
Believe in the Real You...NOT in the label.
What is the 1st step to tearing off your negative label?
300
A type of measurement system. (Example: When you give part of your day to practice (such as soccer, basketball, reading, music, etc.) You are putting in ___________.
What is Time?
300
Something in school in which you have control over.
What is "staying on-task", "handing in work", "MYOB", "being respectful"? (or something similar)
400
Opportunity, Freedom and Self-Respect
What do I get if I take the "harder but worth it" track?
400
How do I protect my feelings?
What is the Defense Mechanisms analogy?
400
This is what is on the inside; what people don't always see.
What is good or the "Real Me"?
400
If you want to be good at something you must put in:_______,________,and _________.
What is Desire, Time and Effort?
400
Name one thing in school over which you do not have control.
What is "class schedule", "others' behaviors"? (or something similar)
500
The track that leads to a crash.
What is the "Easy-Fast" track?
500
Gaining Opportunity, Freedom and Self-Respect.
What are the rewards for using a positive Defense Mechanism?
500
Changing my behavior.
What is choosing a new label?
500
The Desire, Time and Effort WhyTry poster is this?
What is a maze?
500
Negative Peer Pressure
What is friends wanting you to join them in stealing, drinking or other illegal activities? (or something similar)