Big Feelings
School Stuff
Friend Problems
Calm & Smart Choices
When Something Goes Wrong
100

A kid feels mad and yells.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Feelings are loud and in charge.

100

A kid lines up quietly because the teacher said so.

Answer: 🟦 Rational Mind
Why: The brain is following rules.

100

A kid grabs a toy because they want it now.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Wanting something fast controls the action.

100

A kid feels mad and takes a deep breath.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: The feeling is noticed and calmed.

100

A kid loses a game and starts yelling.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Big feelings take over after losing.

200

A kid feels sad but keeps following the rules quietly.

Answer: 🟦 Rational Mind
Why: Thinking brain is in charge, feelings are pushed away.

200

A kid feels nervous about class and asks for help.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings are noticed and help is used.

200

A kid wants a turn and asks nicely.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings and words are used together.

200

A kid follows rules but ignores how they feel.

Answer: 🟦 Rational Mind
Why: Thinking brain only.

200

A kid loses a game and quietly follows the rules anyway.


Answer: 🟦 Rational (Thinking) Mind
Why: The brain is focused on rules, not feelings.

300

A kid feels angry and takes a deep breath before talking.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings and thinking work together.

300

A kid feels frustrated and rips their paper.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Frustration takes over the body.

300

A kid waits their turn because those are the rules.

Answer: 🟦 Rational Mind
Why: The brain is thinking about rules.

300

A kid notices their feelings and chooses a safe action.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings and thinking work together.

300

A kid loses a game, feels sad, and takes a deep breath.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings are noticed and calmed.

400

A kid feels excited and runs without looking.


Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Big feelings make the body act fast.

400

A kid finishes work even though they feel tired and upset.

Answer: 🟦 Rational Mind
Why: Thinking brain stays in charge.

400

A kid gets mad and stops talking to their friend.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Anger controls the choice.


400

A kid yells when something feels unfair.

Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Big feelings take over.

400

A kid makes a mistake and says, ā€œI’m bad at everything!ā€


Answer: 🟄 Emotional Mind
Why: Feelings are controlling thoughts.

500

A kid feels really upset, pauses, and chooses to ask for help.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings are noticed and a safe choice is made.

500

A kid feels overwhelmed at school, takes a break, then goes back to work.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: The kid listens to feelings and still makes a smart choice.

500

A kid feels left out, tells a friend how they feel, and listens too.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: Feelings and thinking are shared safely.

500

A kid feels angry, uses words, and finds a solution.

Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: The kid pauses and chooses a helpful action.

500

A kid makes a mistake, feels frustrated, and tries again or asks for help.


Answer: 🟩 Wise Mind
Why: The kid notices feelings and chooses a helpful next step.