Hurtful Words
Acting Out
Kind Words
100

You're annoying me, go away

Can I please have some space right now 

100

Rolling your eyes at someone when they ask you a question 

Smile and explain the answer to them 
100
2 Kind Actions

opening the door for someone

sharing

what else?

200

You're not my friend 

I know we aren't friends yet but maybe we can become friends 

200

Motioning someone away when they try to talk to you

Welcoming them to your conversation 
200

How to show kindness to your parent?

Anyway to choose to show is correct
300

You're weird, why would you say that 

That is an interesting way to look at things!

300

Laughing at someone when they get an answer wrong 

Ask if you can help them understand the right answer
300

Can show me gentle hands?

Demonstrate

400

No one likes you

There is no way to rephrase this. This is something we don't say

400
Saying mean things under your breath

Be better at communicating what your frustration is 

400

Is yelling kind? why?

It can make the other person feel sad

500

Oh my gosh shut up, you're stupid 

Can you please be quiet, I'm trying to work

500

Slamming something or breaking things when frustrated 

You need to find a way to release that anger in a positive way

Stress tools

Walk away

Talk to an adult or friend 

Journaling 

Scribble on paper

500

Can you give yourself a hug?

Demonstrate