Definitions
An oversimplified or fixed image or idea about someone, based on beliefs about a group they belong to
What is a stereotype?
Name the two types of safety
What are physical and emotional safety?
An individual who sees a situation happening, and doesn't know a) why it is harmful or b) how they can help
What is an observer
Blaming the hurt individual for getting hurt/saying it is their fault
There were two creatures going to a party in a video we watched about Identity. What were those two creatures?
What are the caterpillar and snail
The way someone identifies themselves (example: male/man/boy, female/woman/girl, trans/transgender, non-binary, fluid, and numerous other ways to identify ourselves)
What is gender?
Components of the Respect triangle
What are safety, communication, and empathy
An individual who notices a problem happening, intervenes to make the situation better and supports the individual being hurt
What is an active bystander?
Any unwanted sexual behavior that has to do with someone's body, gender, or sexual orientation. It can be verbal, non-verbal, physical, or written/digital.
An example of why stereotypes harm people
What is (any of the following)
It puts people into a box
It doesn't allow people to be fully themselves
It gives preformed judgments of others
etc.
Treating a person or a group as if they are less than or other than human and don't deserve respect
What is dehumanization?
What is (any of the following)
Yes, I'm sure, I know, I'm excited, etc.
Direct eye contact, initiating, pulling closer, actively touching someone, nodding yes, laughter or smiling, "open" body language, etc.
An individual who notices a problem happening, intervenes to make the situation better on a larger scale
What is a social change leader?
the four biological responses to trauma
What are fight, flight, freeze, and appease
What are four components needed in a healthy relationship?
1) Are Equal
2) Have Boundaries
3) Use respectful (or collaborative) communication
4) Are safe
A being that isn't perfect; they make mistakes and have feelings and emotions
What is a human?
Looking at things from someone else's perspective, trying to understand where they are coming from, and offering any support they need
What is empathy
A friend shares a rumor about another student at school. What would make it difficult to step in and tell your friend to stop spreading that rumor?
What is:
You don't know if the rumor is true
You don't want to upset your friend
You don't want a rumor about you to be spread
Any other realistic example
Is it ever the victim's fault?
No
Two ways we discussed to hold someone accountable
What is calling in and calling out
Freely given, enthusiastic, and ongoing verbal and non-verbal yes.
What is consent?
Give at least two different ways you can support survivors
Any of the following:
Listen
Communicate you believe them
Remind them what happened was not their fault
Respect their decisions
Etc.
The three ways to intervene in a situation - the acronym we use to remember is D.O.T.
What is:
Do something Directly
Others Can Help
Talk about something else/Cause a distraction
A reason people sexually harass other people or blame the victim is to keep ________ & _________
What is power & control?
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