Emotion Cues
Handling Conflict
What makes a good friend?
Fun!
100

This emotion would show up as clenched fists, loud volume of voice, and stomping.

Anger

100

Someone cut you in line when getting lunch, and it makes you mad. What is the best choice of action?

a. yell at them

b. push them 

c. calmly say, "hey, I was next"

d. walk away and complain about them to peers. 

C! Calmly say that you were next

100
What are "must haves" in friendships?

Could be someone you trust, who is kind, likes the same things as you, loyal (doesn't talk behind your back), makes you feel better about yourself.

100

What is the tallest animal in the world?

A giraffe

200

This feeling may look like playing around with hands, sweating, breathing fast, and looking around the room.

Nervousness or anxiety

200

A friend cancels plans last minute and you are upset about it. What is the best way to respond?

a. Send a mean text

b. say "I'm sad we can't spend time together today. Are you around to reschedule?"

c. ignore them for a week

d. block their number and tell others they are a bad friend

B! Let them know you wish to have spent time together, and that you are still interested for another time. 

200

What are deal-breakers in a friendship?

Someone who breaks your trust multiple times, someone who tries to control you, someone that always teases you and doesn't say many nice things about you

200

What food is made by bees and never spoils?

Honey

300

A person has tears in their eyes, speak in a very low volume of voice, and won't make eye contact. They keep saying "I am fine". 

Sad 
300

Someone teases you about your outfit. What is the best way to respond?

a. tease them back harder

b. laugh it off even though you are offended

c. spread rumors about them

d. let them know that teasing about outfits is not cool, and that you like what you are wearing. 

D! Let them know that what they said was not nice, and also let them know you like your outfit. It shows them that their opinion does not change what you like

300

How does a good friend act when you succeed at something?

The friend should be happy for you and proud that you succeeded. A bad friend would be jealous, downplay your success, or try to "one-up" you.

300

What is the name of the blue alien in a Disney movie, created by Dr. Jumba?

Stitch!

400

Someone rolls their eyes when you are speaking to them, crosses their arms, and taps their foot like they are in a rush. 

Annoyed 

400

You are doing a partner project in class, and you and your partner disagree on how to do the project. What should you do?

a. suggest combining certain ideas

b. let them do everything

c. complain to your teacher 

d. refuse to do their idea

A! Suggest combining some ideas. This way, you both get a portion of what you want. 

400

What is one thing you want to improve to be a better friend?

Could include being more available to them when they need you, complimenting them more, showing you care through acts of friendship 

400

What two states are not physically connected to the United States?

Hawaii and Alaska

500

This emotion can be seen through someone who is smiling wide, fast paced movements, high energy, and appear "bouncy".

Excited

500

Someone posts something about you that is mean. How can you best respond?

a. post something worse about them

b. tell your friends block this person on social media 

c. pretend like it doesn't bother you

d. message or talk to them privately and if needed, inform an adult

D! It's best to talk to this person privately. Taking the problem to social media will only worsen the outcome as more people are able to see and may become involved.
500
What does a healthy disagreement look like with a friend?

You are both able to talk about it without targeting each other (like saying mean things), both try to understand the other's perspective, handle it between each other rather than bringing other peers into it. 

500

True or False: There are more bacteria cells in your body than human cells. 

True!