Judging
What Barrier does this definition belong to: Backing ideas with the force of social, moral, or theological authority- shoulds, oughts, "the right thing to do"?
What Barrier does this definition belong to: This is pushing the other's problems aside through distraction?
What is: A solution with an emphasis on the punishment forth coming
What is the definition of: Reassuring, Sympathizing, Consoling, Supporting?
What is: If its perceived as trying to stop the other person from feeling the negative emotions they are experiencing, it can drive a wedge between people. Reassurance does not allow the comforter to really be with the other person.
What Barrier does the following example belong to: "If you weren't gambling, then you'd actually be able to afford to take me out for supper for once!"
What Barrier does this definition belong to: Logic focuses on facts & avoids feelings. Feelings are who we are. They are the main issue.
What Barrier does the following example belong to: "Maybe you should apologize to her, she might actually forgive you then"
What Barrier does this definition belong to: Questions are usually a poor substitute for more direct communication. They are incomplete, indirect, veiled, impersonal and consequently ineffective messages that breed defense reactions & resistance.
What Barrier does the following example belong to: "Just because you are Asian, you think you're smarter than me?"
What is: The problem with unsolicited advice is that it is often a basic insult to the intelligence of the other person.
What Barrier does the following example belong to: "You are such a great guy! I know you would never leave me for anyone else"