BIG EMOTIONS
HOW DO WE COPE?
TYPES OF HEALTHY COPING SKILLS
SAFETY AND SUPPORT
RANDOM
100

What is one “big emotion” that can be hard to handle?

Worry, frustration, anxiety, sadness, or similar answers

100

Is taking deep breaths a healthy or unhealthy coping skill?

HEALTHY

100

What is one self soothing skill you learned today?

Deep breathing, meditation, relaxing muscles (progressive muscle relaxation), etc.

100

If you or a friend is struggling with big emotions, who is one trusted adult you can talk to?

Parent, grandparent, teacher, counselor, Hope Squad advisor, coach, etc.

100

What does PAWS stand for?

Practice safety

Accept responsibility

Wise choices

Show kindness

200

Name one stressful situation kids your age might experience

Failing a test, moving schools, family health problems, fighting with friends, etc.

200

Name one unhealthy way someone might react when they feel overwhelmed

Screaming, hitting, bottling feelings, saying mean things, avoiding the problem, etc.

200

Name an activity you enjoy that can distract you in a healthy way

Drawing, listening to music, playing sports, reading, talking with someone, etc.

200

True or False: Unsafe secrets should always be told to a trusted adult, even if a friend asks you not to

TRUE

200

How many siblings does Ms. M have?

10

300

True or False: Everyone feels big emotions sometimes

TRUE

300

What is one healthy thing you can do if you fail a test?

Ask for help, take a break, study with a friend, use positive self talk, talk to an adult, etc.

300

What is positive self talk? Give an example

Telling yourself helpful things like “I’ve got this,” “I can try again,” “I’m strong,” etc.

300

What is one sign that someone might need extra help coping with their feelings?

Withdrawing from friends, acting very upset, hiding emotions, showing signs of stress, changes in behavior, etc.

300

What country did Ms. Alaina study abroad in?

London, England

400

What might happen in your body when you feel a big emotion like anxiety or frustration?

Fast heartbeat, sweaty palms, tense muscles, stomachache, shaky hands, etc.

400

Why is talking to someone (friend, adult, Hope Squad advisor) a healthy choice?

It helps you feel supported, get advice, stay safe, and not deal with big emotions alone

400

Name one of the “five senses” you use during grounding exercises

Sight, sound, touch, smell, or taste

400

Why is it important to write down crisis hotline numbers or keep them in your backpack?

So you have quick access to help, support, and safety resources when needed

400

Which Hope Squad teacher has been to 28 different countries?

Ms. Millsap :)

500

Describe a time when someone might feel two big emotions at once

Examples: Feeling excited and nervous before a game; feeling sad and worried about a family situation; feeling happy and anxious about a new school, etc.

500

Explain why an unhealthy coping skill might feel good in the moment, but not help in the long run

It may distract you briefly, but doesn’t solve the problem, can hurt relationships, and can make feelings worse later

500

Describe a situation from your own life and which coping category would help you the most

ANSWERS MAY VARY

500

What should you do if a friend tells you something serious and you don’t know what to do next?

Tell a trusted adult immediately — they can help keep everyone safe

500

How many siblings do Ms. Alaina, Ms. Millsap, and Ms. M have combined?

1 (Ms. Alaina) + 2 (Ms. Millsap) + 10 (Ms. M) = 13

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