General Guidelines
Why do we set limits?
To clarify the reality that there are certain types of behaviors that are prohibited and relieve the child from anxiety related to unclear expectations
When are limits needed?
Only as necessary
Only when they are needed
Is the following statement true or false:
Limits provide physical and emotional security and safety.
True
Which model do we use for limit setting?
A-C-T model for limit setting
How should limits be set?
In a calm, patient, matter-of-fact, and firm way.
Situation when you might set a limit
What is a behavior that is a harm to themselves or others?
Are all behaviors accepted in child-centered play therapy?
No, but all feelings, wishes, and desires are accepted.
Give an an example of acknowledging a feeling.
I know you are/feel (excited, angry, sad, etc.) about...
Should limits be total or conditional? Explain.
Limits should be total versus conditional.
Do you provide residents with a list of limits in their intake or assessment?
No, limits are set only when they are needed!
What do limits anchor the session to?
Reality
What does the C stand for in the ACT model?
Communicate the limit
Number of you set a limit before moving on to choice-giving
At least three times.
A question to consider when setting limits
Does the behavior affect the relationship between the therapist/staff and resident?
What is the objective in limit setting?
The objective of the staff member is not to stop the behavior, but rather, to facilitate the expression of the motivating feeling, want, or need in a more acceptable manner.
Client is in the play session throwing the bowling pins. He looks in the mirror and you believe he is going to throw the bowling pin at the mirror and he does. Using the ACT model, set a limit for James.
James, you are (acknowledge feeling) about throwing the bowling ball. However (communicate the limit)...you can choose (target an alternative).
Describe choice-giving or offering alternatives
Once you have identified the feeling or intent, you will be able to identify a healthy alternative. Direct attention away from the original object by looking, pointing, and stating new alternatives. Be creative in offering choices that you are comfortable with and proceed.
define the ACT model
Here is a quick summary of the ACT limit setting formula: