Dress & Appearance
What is the standard for proselyting shoes from Elders and Sisters?
Sisters: Shoes should be conservative. Make sure they are polishable, closed toed, closed heeled.
Elders: Shoes should be comfortable, polished, and conservative in appearance. Shoes should always match your belt.
What chapter do we learn about "Uniting with Members" in PMG?
Chapter 13
Who do you get the 5-List from and what do you say?
The ward clerk, and you ask for the specific names of the Lists, because they don't always understand the term 5-List.
Finish the quote by Elder Homer...
"“When you make their work, your work...."
"It opens the door to THE work!"
In the "Greatest Mission in the World" we do what in the mornings?
Run.
What is the standard regarding jewelry and bracelets for Elders and Sisters?
Keep accessories and jewelry, including watches, simple, professional, and conservative so they do not distract from your message or draw attention. Leave expensive jewelry at home.
Elders, this means no more than 1 ring and a watch. No flashy, dangling, or threaded bracelets. Look to what the apostles wear.
What should be the focus of a Ward Mission Plan?
The ward council creates a simple plan for sharing the gospel. Become familiar with this plan. In weekly coordination meetings, look for ways to help leaders work toward their goals. Keep leaders informed about what you are doing to support members in sharing the gospel.
PMG pg. 222
What is the 5-Lists?
1. Part-Member Families
2. Recent Move In
3. Returning / New Members
4. Unbaptized Youth
5. Prospective Elders
When participating in a Weekly Coordination Meeting, what are the main 4 points of discussion?
How can we help...
1. Those being taught.
2. Recent Converts
3. Returning Members
4. Finding more people to teach.
As the Lords representatives, what is our standard on our language when we are with others or as a companionship?
Keep your language dignified and avoid using slang. Use appropriate titles when addressing others. For example, use the title of “Elder” or “Sister” when referring to other missionaries to show respect for their calling.
Be mindful of our language, when using words like "fetch" or "frick" ponder upon what that is substituting and standing in place of.
What is the standard for sunglasses worn by Disciples of Jesus Christ?
Keep accessories simple, professional, and conservative so they do not distract from your message or draw attention.
You may wear simple and conservative sunglasses to provide protection from the sun. Remove sunglasses when speaking with others. Do not wear sunglasses with bright-colored rims or mirrored lenses. Do not wear hats or sunglasses indoors.
(Elders this means NO PIT-VIPERS)
Where are we taught in PMG on how can we help prepare our fellowship to come teach a lesson with us?
Before lessons, plan with members how to work together. You could use a text message or brief phone call to confirm what you will be teaching, who will pray, who will lead the conversation, and other details.
PMG pg. 188
When visiting a less active members home, what should you ask them for or invite them to do?
"Would you be willing to help us practice our teaching?"
PRACTICE LESSONS!
When building relationships with local leaders and members, what does PMG teach is the most effective way to do that?
1. Build trust and genuine friendships.
2. Learn about them!
3. Be purposeful and engaged in the work.
4. Help them feel the spirit!
PMG Pg. 220
DAILY DOUBLE!!!! You are one lucky missionary!
What are the standards for communicating with family/friends on preparation day?
Beginning at 8am and ending at 6pm you may call family and communicate to only family on messenger.
When communicating with friends use email.
If communicating with missionary in your mission make sure it is relevant to your purpose and confirm with companion before sending.
Always be within sight and sound.
In cold weather you may wear sweaters, coats, gloves, scarves, and hats as needed. These items should be simple and conservative, without words, pictures, or logos (however, small, non-distracting logos are acceptable).
Outerwear should fit well, look professional, and be appropriate for the climate and conditions of your mission. Hats and gloves should not be worn indoors.
What are a members primary roles when participating in lessons?
To offer sincere testimony, share brief personal experiences, and develop a relationship with those being taught.
PMG pg. 188
In Chapter 13 of PMG and "Seek the Sheep" we learn how to use the 5-List Daily. What do we learn to do for this?
1. Pray over the lists and decide by the spirit who to visit first... then DO IT!
2. Meet with Ward Leaders daily and report and communicate on efforts.
3. As you make a PMG app filter, search for these peoples ministering brothers and sisters.
As taught in "Seek the Sheep" what thing(s) should be done at the start of every transfer as well as every Saturday?
"Seek the Sheep" - Unite with Members
1. Every Transfer: 5 Lists from the Clerk.
4. Every Saturday: Weekly Update PMG 221
What do the standards teach us about bargaining with the Lord? And where?
Do not try to make deals with the Lord and expect specific blessings by adjusting what is required of you.
For example, don’t try to bargain with the Lord by getting up earlier, going without food or drink (beyond the monthly fast), or skipping a preparation day.
As you are an authorized representative of Jesus Christ and His restored Church, your appearance is often the first message others receive. It should be consistent with the sacred message you are called to share. Throughout your mission, make sure that your appearance and behavior help others focus on that message.
What words from President Russell M. Nelson guide your approach to your dress and appearance? What does he say about this?
“When your greatest desire is to let God prevail, to be part of Israel, so many decisions become easier. So many issues become nonissues! You know how best to groom yourself. … You know the kind of person you really want to become.”
Fill in the blanks in the quote...
“New_______ come into the Church with enthusiasm for what they have found. And we must immediately _____on that enthusiasm. … _________ can help introduce and connect the people they teach and the ________ ______ to the faithful members who will reach out to them, ______ to them, guide them, and welcome them to church even before they are baptized. … As we [_______] to those who enter the waters of baptism, we will see many more of God’s children endure to the end and receive eternal life”
1.Converts
2.Build
3.Missionaries
4.New converts
5.Listen
6.Minister
GOOD CHOICE!
Roleplay what it should look like with your companion to visit a 60 year old prospective elder who hasn't been to church since he was 15.
Roleplay as a companionship to group leader :)
How was it? Have group discuss.
What does it mean to serve like Ammon?
3. SERVE LIKE AMMON
• Visit your Local Leaders and make their priorities your
priorities by quickly (via text or email) and regularly (Saturday
Update) reporting back to them about your progress. Each
report builds enthusiasm!
• Quickly identify key fellowship and invite them to come
teaching with you. Recent Converts can be a Gold Mine!
When it comes to our meal times, what is our standard to uphold?
1. 1 hour for dinner between 5:00-6:30pm.
2. No gathering for meals unless on p-day within your district.
3. Share a powerful message more than just a scripture, help them feel the spirit! Share Miracles!