What is Fear that their parents will be mad at them or will hurt them worse for telling ■ Desire not to get their parents into trouble ■ Fear of being removed from their homes ■ A belief that it’s okay for their parents to hurt them ■ Fear of not being believed ■ Shame or guilt ■ Belief that they deserve the abuse for their “bad” behavior ■ Idea that they owe their parent something and can't give up on them
Fact. It is a law that is when a child is hurt or injured by a grown up who is taking care of them. This means red marks, bruises, cuts, broken bones, or hurt in any other way.
How does the law help with kids that have been physically abused?
Child protective services may work with parents on their anger management or parenting skills to ensure that the kids are safe. CPS likes to help parents as much as possible. They help with providing parenting classes, getting therapists for the parents, helping with money, and helping the kids find therapists.
Emotional abuse usually happens along with the physical abuse. What is an example of emotional abuse?
when someone threatens to hurt you calls you a name to make you feel bad puts you down
When does CPS remove kids from the home?
If the parents are seen as 'unfit' and are consistently not doing what CPS asks, then yes, they can place the kids with another family. Usually that is temporary, until the parents can get themselves together: a job, housing, no drugs, done what CPS asks. If that continues to not happen, then CPS can become their guardian and they could be placed in foster care.
True or false. Physical abuse teaches children to be submissive, fearful, and/or aggressive. It also teaches them that hitting is a way to control other people or solve problems. The attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors that grow out of physical abuse can cause a child to have problems at school, at home, and with friends.
What does it mean when we are slowly getting in the pool of water?
Slowly talking about the scary thing that happened, the trauma. The physical abuse.
Fight, Flight, Freeze
1. realizing that the abuse they've suffered is wrong 2. not being able to cope with the abuse any more 3. the abuse is getting worse and the kid is tired of it. 4. wanting to protect other children from being abused 5. the desire to see the abuser punished 6. reaching a point where they trust someone enough to tell them 7. when someone notices some signs and asks them directly