Home Rules
Name 4 important rules to follow in the home
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CALM BODY: Keep a calm body at all times with everyone in the home (e.g., hands to myself, feet to myself)
Use your words all the time: When talking to others, I need to use my words all the time
Respect others time and personal space: I can remind others, but I need to be respectful of others actions, personal space, room, and items
Ensure you keep good hygiene all the time (e.g., wash your hands before eating, take a shower, clean yourself after using the toilet)
When Eric gets out of his chair during dinner time and goes upstairs, who is in charge of reminding him to eat his lunch?
Eric is in charge. He can take breaks, return back to eat dinner.
I need to remember to worry only about myself. If Eric needs help or reminders, MOM will be in charge of reminding him. I can talk to mom directly.
Eric has trumpet class on Saturday, who is responsible to remind him of his class?
Eric
a.) reminding dad to stop watching T.V.
b.) reminding Eric to finish his meals, going into Eric's room
c.) Evan's schedule, classes, sleeping schedule, own room, phone
d.) reminding Eric and dad to finish all of their work, sleep on time, and go into their rooms
Remind Ashley to clean up her backpack
Put the items inside her backpack
or something else?
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WAIT for Ashley to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away
When I feel upset, and I say "Mom I am feeling upset because Eric is watching T.V." this means I am:
Choose the best answer:
a.) watching what Eric is doing because it's my responsibility
b.)using my words and following house rules
c.) talking to mom correctly
d.) not following the rules
Eric overslept in the morning and did not go to school. I am going to the bus, but Eric is still in his bed, what should I do?
a.) remind Eric to get up, he is going to be late for school
b.remind Eric to get dressed, he needs to go to school
c.) nothing, let dad or mom take care of Eric, it is not my responsibility
d.) stay home and help Eric get out of bed
Evan needs to go to sleep at 10:45 p.m., it's 10:47 p.m. who is responsible for reminding him?
Evan /mom
What should you do if you see your brother not finishing his homework and playing only video games after mom says "Eric do your homework?"
Angel is in the living room and is watching T.V. with the lights off, what do you do?
Turn the lights on he needs help
Turn the T.V. off he shouldn't be watching it
or something else?
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WAIT for Angel to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away
Dad is watching T.V. downstairs he says "Evan I am going to watch the football game" what should you be doing during this time?
Eric is in charge of his schedule, dinner time, sleeping time, bath time, and play time. This means only ERIC is responsible for HIS things. Tell me one thing you are responsible for
a.) I am responsible for reminding mom to check in on Eric
b.) I am responsible for checking in on Eric
c.) I am responsible only for myself
d.) I am responsible for everyone in the home
Eric is sleeping in his room after his alarm goes off, he doesn't turn it off who is responsible for reminding him to turn it off
Eric /mom
The school bus comes in the morning to pick you up, what should you do if you have to use the bathroom?
b.) use the bathroom before the bus comes, it's not polite to make the bus wait, always go before and not during
c.) wait and go in school
d.) tell the bus driver "I need to go to the bathroom" wait for me
Nancy is finishing her notes downstairs, Ashley left already and Nancy needs more time to finish, what should you do?
Help nancy clean up so she can leave quicker
or something else?
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1 daily prize each day for each good note, but no trip to the grocery store since I did not earn a good note at IN STEPPS
What else can you do when Eric is not following the rules?
Eric left the dinner table, he is not done eating and is on his phone, who can remind him to finish eating?
Only Eric / mom/dad
I am responsible for my school schedule, IN STEPPS schedule, Kadiant schedule and I check in with who?
mom, dad, Nancy, Melissa, Ashley, Isidro, Maria (they all help me make sure I am on the right track)
Eric comes home from school and leaves his backpack in the dining table, what should you do?
move his backpack
move his backpack and take it upstairs
talk to Eric
or something else?
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WAIT for Eric to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away, I can talk to mom and ask her
It is important to follow home rules because I need to remember to do the right thing with others. Doing the right thing includes keeping a calm body, using my words, giving others privacy, and finishing MY work only. Following the rules keeps everyone safe, happy, and creates structure
Tell me what you should if Eric is watching T.V. all night and doesn't go to bed (2 things)
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1. Wait in my room, this is not related to me
2. Talk to mom (Mom can you remind Eric to go to sleep soon, "mom when is Eric going to sleep")
Evan is going to Costco with Isidro and mom tells Evan to pick up 2 items (bread and bananas), who is responsible for the list?
Evan
What can happen if Evan focuses and tells others (e.g., Eric, mom, Ashley, Nancy) what to do?
Others don't like this, this can make them feel angry, frustrated, overwhelmed, upset
Its 11:00 p.m. and Eric's bedroom light is still on, what should you do?
knock on Eric's door and tell him to turn off the light
go inside Eric's room and turn it off for him
wake mom up and tell her to turn the lights off
or something else?
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WAIT for Eric to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away