Green Flags
Listening without interrupting and showing empathy is an example of this communication skill.
What is active listening
A partner who insists on knowing your location at all times is showing this
What is controlling behavior
The best way to handle conflict is to do this instead of yelling or giving the silent treatment
What is talking calmly / open communication
Jim and Pam from The Office are often seen as a healthy couple because they do this for each other
What is support and communicate
At UVU, this office provides confidential support for students in unhealthy relationships
What is the Mental Health Services
Celebrating your partner’s achievements without jealousy is an example of this.
What is support
When someone ignores your feelings and pressures you to do things you don’t want to do, it’s a sign of this.
What is an unhealthy relationship
Using “I feel” statements is an example of this communication style
What is assertive communication
In Twilight, Edward watching Bella sleep without her knowing is an example of this red flag
What is stalking / invasion of privacy
This national hotline provides 24/7 support for people experiencing dating or domestic violence.
What is the National Domestic Violence Hotline
Being able to say “no” without fear of consequences is an example of this.
What is respect for boundaries
Spreading rumors or sharing secrets you told them in confidence is this
What is betrayal of trust
This involves paying attention, not interrupting, and reflecting back what you hear
What is active listening
In Friends, Ross saying “We were on a break!” after cheating is debated as an issue of this
What is respect for boundaries / trust
If you have been impacted by sexual misconduct or discrimination, or you are a party to a sexual misconduct or discrimination proceeding, have experienced or are a victim of dating or domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking, as well as discrimination, harassment, or retaliation, you can request supportive measures through what office?
UVU’s Equity and Title IX Office by:
This trait means both partners share power and decisions fairly.
What is equality
Extreme jealousy is often a sign of this type of relationship
What is an abusive relationship
This communication style avoids conflict at all costs and often suppresses true feelings
What is passive communication
Beyoncé’s song Irreplaceable (“to the left, to the left…”) is an anthem about this relationship choice.
What is leaving an unhealthy relationship / empowerment
Many times couples in a dating, pre-marital, or marital relationship are looking for ways to improve the quality of their bond or need help resolving a glitch in their relationship with each other. MHS provides couple's therapy to those wanting to work through challenges in their relationship. Name two "reasons"/"symptoms" to help you and your partner assess whether your relationship could use professional help
What are passion, intimacy, and commitment
Using guilt, manipulation, or threats to control a partner is known as this
What is emotional abuse
Combining respect for yourself and respect for others is the key to this style of communication
What is assertiveness
In Euphoria, Maddy and Nate’s relationship is often used as an example of this type of relationship
What is toxic / abusive
List three suggestions given by UVU's Safe Dating and Healthy Relationships pamphlet?