Healthy or Unhealthy?
Your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you not to talk to certain people and gets mad when you don’t respond right away. You feel nervous when your phone buzzes.
Unhealthy.
** DOUBLE JEOPARDY! **
Someone you’ve been talking to online asks you to send a picture that makes you uncomfortable. They say, “If you care about me, you’ll do it.”
Not safe.
Why is it important to ask before borrowing something?
Shows respect for the other person’s property and personal space.
How is online dating different from dating in person?
Online dating is different from dating in person because you usually meet and get to know someone through messages or video chats instead of face-to-face. It can be harder to really understand how someone feels or who they truly are without seeing them in person.
Why is it important to be honest in your relationships?
Honesty builds trust and helps people understand each other better. When you’re honest, it’s easier to solve problems and feel safe sharing your feelings.
You’re joking around with someone, but they keep calling you names that make you uncomfortable, even when you ask them to stop.
Unhealthy.
Your friend posted their full name, school, and phone number on their public social media profile.
Not safe.
Never share personal information online! This makes it easy to find you.
What does the word “boundary” mean to your group?
A limit or rule you set to protect your feelings, space, or things. It helps others know what you’re comfortable with and what you don’t want to happen.
Why is it important to know who you're really talking to online?
It’s important to know who you’re really talking to online because sometimes people pretend to be someone they’re not. Knowing who they are helps you stay safe and avoid getting tricked or hurt.
What if someone says they care about you, but they get jealous when you spend time with other friends or family?
It might be a sign they want to control you rather than just care for you. Healthy relationships allow you to have other friends and family, and they respect your time with them.
** TRIPLE JEOPARDY! *
Your girlfriend or boyfriend asks for your passwords to "prove you’re not hiding anything."
Unhealthy.
Keeping your online relationship a secret from family or friends.
Not safe.
How can you politely say “no” when someone asks you to do something you don’t want to do?
You can say things like, “Thanks for asking, but I don’t feel comfortable doing that.”
It’s okay to be honest and clear while still being respectful.
** DOUBLE JEOPARDY! **
What would you do if someone you’re talking to online tries to pressure you to send pictures?
If someone you’re talking to online pressures you to send pictures, you should firmly say no and stop communicating with them. It’s important to tell a trusted adult about what’s happening so they can help you stay safe.
What should you do if someone isn’t treating you kindly?
You should tell them how their behavior makes you feel and ask them to stop. If they continue, it’s important to talk to a trusted adult and spend time with people who respect and support you.
Your friend encourages you to try out for the team and celebrates your successes. You do the same for them.
Healthy.
Someone you met through a game asks to keep chatting on another app where messages disappear. They say it's just easier to talk there.
Not safe.
What is wrong with this?
What should you do if someone keeps pushing you after you've said no?
It's important to stay firm and repeat your answer. If they still don’t listen, try to remove yourself from the situation and seek help from a trusted adult or friend. You have the right to set your boundaries and be respected.
Do online relationships affect your mood or your self-esteem?
If the relationship is positive and supportive, it can make you feel happy and confident, but if it’s stressful or negative, it can make you feel sad, anxious, or less sure about yourself.
** DOUBLE JEOPARDY! **
Why is communication important in any relationship?
Communication is important in any relationship because it helps people understand each other’s feelings and needs. When you talk openly, you can solve problems together and build trust.
Your friend checks in on you all the time and says they worry because they care about you. But sometimes, it feels like they don’t trust you or let you make your own choices.
Unhealthy.
You’ve been talking to someone online for a few weeks. They seem nice, share your interests, and have a profile picture that looks like someone your age — but you’ve never video chatted or confirmed who they really are.
Not safe.
Red flags??
** DOUBLE JEOPARDY! **
Is it okay to block or unfollow someone online if they make you uncomfortable? Why or why not?
Yes!
It’s okay to block or unfollow someone online if they make you uncomfortable. Doing this helps protect your privacy and keeps your online space safe and positive. You don’t have to interact with anyone who doesn’t respect your feelings or boundaries.
How can you tell if someone online is trying to control you?
If they pressure you to do things you don’t want to do, like sharing personal info or spending all your time with them. They might also get upset or jealous when you talk to other people or make your own decisions.
What should you do if someone treats you really well in private but ignores or makes fun of you in front of others?
Not a healthy way to treat someone. It’s important to talk to them about how it makes you feel and think about whether this relationship is good for you.