This person died on a cross to forgive our sins
Jesus
Freud
Alice Miller (p. 252) rebukes colleagues who advocate forgiveness. She believes forgiveness is:
a. detrimental
b. helpful
c. done out of a moral obligation
d. A & C
D. Detrimental because it is done out of moral obligation
Define forgiveness
to cease to feel resentment against (an offender)
to give up resentment of or claim to requital
the excusing of an offense without a penalty to free from penalty
1 of the 5 Characteristics of Integrative Christian Counselors is to recognize the potential damage of introducing forgiveness too ____
This person was asked three times if he loved Jesus when we see him forgiven:
Peter
These are feeling projected onto the counselor by the client
Transference
According to Jared Pingleton (p. 255) therapist should attempt to cultivate in clients what are the essential elements of forgiveness:
A. it can only be received from God if given to others
B. Can only be given to others if received from self
C. Can only be given to self if received from God.
D. All the above.
D. All the above.
There are this many phases in the Enright Model of Forgiveness
4
Refusing to forgive places us _____ others!
above
These people were forgiven for building a golden calf:
The Israelites
These are feelings projected onto the client by the counselor
countertransference
This is the most frequently used religious intervention among Christian counselors p. 273
forgiveness
Name 1 question from phase 1
Help the client to understand the psychological defenses happening within them.
Help them recognize and acknowledge the anger they feel, and evaluate the psychological harm caused by the offense (Akhtar & Barlow, 2018).
A professional challenge of knowing when to forgive clients versus when we need to do this ____ (when they are late.)
impose consequences
Finish this line: Forgive us our tresspasses
. . . .as we forgive those who trespass against us
Name three types of transference and countertransference
positive, negative, erotic
The primary difference between Christian forgiveness and secular forgiveness is that Christian forgiveness is done out of gratitude for God's forgives when secular forgiveness is done for this reason p. 275
to feel better or unload emotional baggage.
Phase 2 is Decision Making - help the client gain an accurate understanding of the nature of forgiveness and makes a decision to commit to forgiving on the basis of this understanding. Name 1 question.
Ultimately, we do not deserve forgiveness and we cannot earn it, yet the Triune God gives it to us in this way.
unconditionally
Name one thing the Bible says about forgiveness
(open answer)
One way a counselor can recognize vulnerabilities as a counselor is to
seek personal counseling
Daily double
One danger of rushing forgiveness to meet cost-effective needs from insurance companies is that rushing forgiveness is done at the _____ level rather than based on deep understanding p. 277
Superficial, intellectual
Phase 4 -Deepening - help the client find meaning in their suffering (Akhtar & Barlow, 2018).
State 1 question you could ask.
This involves the counselor's reaction to a client’s transference, and it may be influenced by the therapist's unresolved conflicts rather than the client-therapist relationship
Countertransference