True or False: If a PNM is invited to Pref she is on our Bid list
True!
A PNM asks “Do you guys haze?”, how do you respond?
Give a direct "no" and reassure her about your new-member program
true or false: you should tell the bumping sister what you were talking about!
true!
what are the 5 topics sisters (and PNMs) should never discuss during Recruitment
the 5 B's (Booze, Bucks, Bills, Biden, Beliefs)
All sisters should practice this to be engaged when in conversation with a PNM
Active Listening
When does voting take place
after each round (with your RGL)
If a PNM is closed-off and giving short answers, what type of question can help her expand on her answers
"Why" questions. (Why did you pick you major)
If you are not matched with a PNM for a round, where should you go?
the wall!
12/1 at 11:59pm!
"ill see you tommorow" is what (illegal) recruitment behavior
Promise bidding
What is the SIGMA acronym you MUST know for Philanthropy round
Sigma Kappa Foundation, Inherit the Earth, Gerontology, Maine Seacoast Mission, Alzheimers Association
A PNM shares something personal and important, what is the first thing you should do
Acknowledge and validate their experience, and use that to connect with them on a deeper level
If confused during a bump, you should go to
To Maura, Lauren, and/or Olivia
A PNM asks “How many girls will you take?”, how do you respond?
Explain Panhellenic quota and values-based matching in simple terms
This policy does not allow contacting PNMs before+during recruitment
Strict-silence (starts on the day of PNM orientation and ends on Bid day)
when is the "last" day a PNM can impress us
Values!
A PNM says, “I love this chapter, I only want you guys”, how do you respond?
Encourage her to trust the process and keep an open mind, while remaining welcoming and excited
How should you walk up to a PNM to initiate a bump/transition with a sister
walk where the PNM can see you coming! (do a loop if you must)
chapters should recruit based on values rather than popularity, looks, or social status.
What should you do if you touch a PNM or they touch you
find Maura + Lauren + Olivia for a self-report
What is the purpose of MSC
To accurately and fairly represent and discuss initiated sisters opinions and experiences with PNMs for the day. RGLs act as a representative for your bump group.
A PNM mentions another chapter negatively, how do you respond?
Redirect positively and avoid comparing sororities
this person initiates the FIRST bump of the round
the RGL
A PNM starts trauma dumping or sharing something deep during Philanthropy round, how do you proceed?
Listen empathetically, validate, share if comfortable, and slowly bring the conversation back to a safer place for the PNM
This is a conversation no-no where you talk for the majority of the time, overshare, or center yourself too much
Dominating the conversation