Acting on the assumption that the other person will not hurt us or disappoint us
Avenue : Trust
The healthy ability to shape your own life
Autonomy
To become more independent physicall, financially, intellectually, emotionally
Becoming Autonomous
Storytelling ( pass on faith story)
Stage 2 Literal Faith ( 7 to early teens)
Name of principle to deal with conflict : People feel the same way you do
DO UNTO OTHERS
A social organization with leaders and rules that govern it
Institution
We enter into a conversation with someone because we hope it will have a desirable outcome
Avenue : Hope
Groupthink
Childhood values directed by parents, school, church are challenged
Constructing out value system
Group Influence, Conforms to values and expectations of group
Stage 3 Group Faith ( teens to mid-20s)
Name the principle for dealing with conflict : speak to the person whom you are in conflict with
GO TO THE SOURCE
Teacher
being right becomes more important than understanding or relating
Desire to be free of their own family, signing a contract into another family
Jailbreak marriage
Personal search for faith
Reflecting on religion
Personal responsibility for beliefs, tension with family/friends and grey areas
Stage 4 - Personal Faith ( mid-20s and older)
Name the principle for dealing with conflict : Don't act on rumours
GET FACTS STRAIGHT
deepest vocation of the church is to respond to the prayer of Jesus that "we all may be one"
Community
Roadblock : Self Protection
Genes have a strong influence on who you are
Genetic
using leisure time for renewal
Name the principle for dealing with conflict : State the problem clearly, search for solutions and evaluate
TAKE A PROBLEM-SOLVING APPROACH
Love for the poor is a constant part of her tradition
Servant
When someone states their thoughts, wishes and feelings
Avenue : I Message
Major historical events, accidents, chance of meeting ect
Circumstances
developing skills for life work
Selecting a career and taking adult job
Stage 1 Imaginative Faith (Birth to 7 years)
Strive to influence their society towards working for the common good
Advocate