Social Skills
25 questions / Social Skills Social Skills 2 About YOU! Trivia Social Skills 3 3 similar games
25 questions / Job Skills Social Skills Budget Money skills Misc.
Paycheck
What do you get weekly or biweekly when you work at a job?
What are good social skills?
Television
Which costs more, a basketball or a television?
.15 cents
How much is 3 nickels?
What do you need to get ready for a job interview?
It is polite. It shows you care about the other person and that you are listening.
Why should you wait when someone is speaking?
Checking and savings
What types of accounts are there at a bank?
$3.00
If Logan had $10 and he bought a Pokemon book for $7, how much money does he have left?
What is credit?
Soft Skills
What is the name of skills where you are on time, take initiative and are friendly?
To find the cheaper item or better deal
Why do customers compare items at the supermarket?
$6.50
Add these up:
ice cream cone $2.00
pizza $3.00
hot dog $1.50
Why is it important to have good social skills?
To have enough money for your bills, food, recreational activities and your savings.
Why is it important to have a budget?
$9.00
If you have $20.00 and you spend $11.00, how much change do you get back?
Through droplets from coughing, sneezing or talking.
How does Covid-19 spread to others?
A Thank You email or letter
After you go on a job interview, what should you send to your potential employer?
Self Regulation
What is it called when you are able to control your own emotions?
Rent
What do you pay to your landlord when you live in an apartment?
$38
How much is one twenty dollar bill, two five dollar bills, and 8 one dollar bills?
25 questions / Daily Living Skills Social Skills Money Skills Community Safe Skills Kitchen Skills
Ask them politely if you can join them next time they get together.
You are disappointed that your friends didn't include you to hang out this weekend. What will you do?
Sort clothes
Put in washer
Add detergent
Start Washer
Name at least 2 things you must do when washing clothes.
Let your friends or an adult know and attempt to stop the bullying.
Your friends are making fun of someone, what will you do?
Savings account
Money for big purchases goes in what type of account?
911
What number do we call in case of an emergency?
A recipe
This lists everything that you will need to cook with and how to cook it. What is it called?
Clean face, brush hair, brush teeth, put on deodorant, clean clothes.
Name at least 3 grooming things to get ready for your day?
Ask your friend politely to keep it down.
You are trying to watch a movie and your friend is being too loud, what will you do?
In your checking account
Where do you put money for monthly bills?
Police officers, fire fighters, ambulance personnel
What are examples of people considered to be "safe strangers"
Wash your hands
This is something you should always do before you cook or eat anything
Ask your friend if something is wrong.
You feel like your friend is upset with you, how will you handle it?
Don't answer it, call a parent or other adult you trust.
If you are home alone and someone knocks on your door, what should you do?
Apples, bananas, pears, grapes, strawberries, etc.
Name 3 fruits
Vegetables, Fruits, Water, Milk
Name 3 healthy eating choices
Listen to your friend, be kind, share, be helpful
What does it mean to be a good friend?
quarter =25c dime =10c
nickel =5c penny =1c
Name each coin and how much it is worth? Hint: There are 4 answers for this question.
Go into the nearest store or business. Tell them you are lost and ask them for help.
What should you do if you are lost and do not have a cell phone?
Close the scissors, hold onto the outside of the blades, walk slowly
How do you carry scissors?
25 questions / Daily Living Skills Social Skills Money Skills Community Safety Skills Kitchen Skills
Brush and Floss your teeth!
You should do this in the morning and at night before bed!
Communicate and ask why they did not invite you
You are disappointed that your friends didn't include you to hang out this weekend. How do you handle this?
a budget
This is a plan for your money
quiet or calm/normal voice
This is the kind of voice I should have when riding in a vehicle with my peers
pot holders or oven mitts
When taking something hot out of the microwave or oven what should you use?
Sort the clothes
Put in Washer
Turn on the correct settings
Put in Detergent/Softener
Start the Washer
Move to the dryer
What are the basic steps of doing laundry?
Tell my friends that is not nice and we should treat everyone with respect
Your friends are making fun of someone, what will you do?
a savings account
Putting money away, just in case, for large purchases, is called
911
What number do we call in case of an emergency?
a recipe
This lists everything that you will need to cook with and how to cook it. What is it called?
change clothes everyday, shower/ bath daily, brush your teeth, wear deoderant
Name a 3 ways to maintain good hygiene?
Ask your friend politely to keep the volume down
You are trying to watch a movie and your friend is being too loud, what will you do?
Dime
What is the piece of change called that is worth ten cents?
police officers, fire fighters, EMTs
These are people are examples of what is considered "safe strangers"
wash your hands
This is something you should always do before you cook or eat anything
lock the doors
One way to stay safe in the house is to...
Ask your friend if something is wrong.
You feel like your friend is upset with you, how will you handle it?
the bank
Building that you cash checks, and keep your money!
look out the window/peephole to see who it is, if you do not know the person do not answer
If you are home alone and someone knocks on your door, what should you do?
Answers will vary
Name 3 fruits
Vegetables, Fruits, Meats/Proteins
Name 3 healthy eating choices
listening, kind, sharing, or helping
What does it mean to be a good friend?
quarter = 25c dime = 10c nickel = 5c penny = 1c
Can you name each coin and how much each coin is worth? Hint: There are 4 answers for this question.
go into the nearest store or business. Explain to them that you are lost and ask them to use your phone to call for help.
What should you do if you are lost and do not have a cell phone?
What is closed and by holding onto the outside of the blades (Double points if you can demonstrate)
how should scissors should be carried?
25 questions / Social Skills conflict resolution About YOU! Trivia Social Skills 3 2 similar games
Ask a teacher! We will never let you go hungry.
You forgot your lunch! What can you do so don't go hungry?
Ask a teacher or friend to support you when you are communicating with the other person.
You got into a conflict during morning recess and have lost your lunch privileges. What can you do to resolve the issue?
If you answered video games, you lose 10,000 points!
What is your favorite thing about the weekend?
verbal(positive or negative), non-verbal ,email, text message, photographs, letters ,singing , dancing .....
List three different kinds of communication.
Police officers, fire fighters
What community helpers keep us safe?
No, you should always try your best no matter how hard the challenge is. If a teacher cannot help you and the problem is too tough, then give your best guess.
Your having a really hard time self-regulating and you're overwhelmed with math. Should you just give up and stop trying? Explain
Any job that makes you happy :)
What job/career do you wish to have after high school?
Habitat for Humanity , Food 4 Families ....
If you could donate to one charity, which one would it be and why?
The responsible thing you could do is to tell someone working at the store. If it's a big problem, they fix it and you would have made a great decision.
What would you do if you saw someone stealing from a store?
You can ask your friend if they're upset with you or something that happened at school/home. Apologizing doesn't always make your friend feel better, sometimes you need to show them with your actions. Can be other answers too.
Your friend seems mad at you and you don't know why. What should you say to your friend?
What is wait your turn, make eye contact, show the person you're listening, respect their space bubble. There are more! tell me few.
What are some important things to remember when having a conversation?
Christmas is only a few weeks away. What is one present you really want to get?
1, 3, 5, 7, 9
What are the odd numbers between 0 and 10
Tropical paradise
If you could have any view outside your classroom window, what would you want it to be?
You can speak to a adult at the school. Or tell your trusted adult(s) when arrive home after school.
After school you noticed someone wrote a lot of inappropriate words on the side of the school wall. What should you do?
Eating food, spending time with family and watching tv!
What was your favorite part about summer break?
beaver
What is the name of the animal on the Canadian nickel.
25 questions / Meeting New People Social Behaviors Phone Skills Wrong Behavior While Talking Right Behavior While Talking
Hello. How are you?
How do I greet someone when I first meet them?
I told my mom, "Can you please help me?" Was this ok?
While on the phone I farted. Is this ok?
FART
Fart, sigh, laugh, talk
Say Hello
Cry, Scream, Yell, Say Hello
Do I call someone stupid when I meet them?
I needed help from my teacher so I said, "I need help stupid". Was this ok?
Burp
Talk, Burp, Smile, Say excuse me.
Smile
Burp, Fart, Smile, Grunt
Can I make farting noises when I meet someone?
I needed help from my mom so I said, "Mom can you help me?" Was this ok?
While on the phone I said, "What are you doing today?" Was this ok?
Shut up
Shut up, Thanks, Hello, Goodbye
Say Thanks
Scream, Yell, Curse, Say Thanks
If someone says "Hi, what is your name?" How do you answer them?
I needed help from my mom so I said, "Get over here and help me dummy!" Was his right?
While on the phone I said, "Can I help you?" Was this ok?
GET OUT
Get out, Hello, Smile, Laugh
Laugh
Fart, Say Stupid, Laugh, Say Dummy
Do I hide behind my mom when meeting someone new?
My friend needs help so i said, "I got to fart." Was this right?
While on the phone I said, "I like to play NBA2K". Was this ok?
SCREAM
Listen, Laugh, Scream, Thanks
Goodbye
Goodbye, Burp, Yell, Cry
25 questions / Kindness/Empathy Hygiene Social Filter Emotions Compromise
True
True or False: Using kindness and empathy can make you a better friend
Brush
If you don't ______ your hair everyday, it can look wild and unclean.
No
Yes or No: Should we say everything that we think outloud?
Yes
It is your actions that matter!
Is it okay to feel emotions like sad, angry, frustrated, or grumpy?
True
True
True or False: opening the door for someone, complimenting someone, and helping someone who dropped something are all examples of kindness.
Plaque and cavities
What happens to your teeth if you don't brush them at least once a day?
No
Yes or no: has this sentence gone through the social filter? "Your picture looks horrible. You didn't even color in the lines and it took you all day to do it!"
Happy/Proud
What emotion might you feel if you get your report card back and see that you got all A's!
Watch a movie that is scary AND funny
Watch one movie tonight and the other another time
Flip a coin to decide
If I want to watch a scary movie tonight, but my friend wants to watch a funny movie...how could we compromise?
Shoes
When you use empathy, you are putting yourself in someone else's _________.
b) 20 seconds
How long should you wash your hands?:
a) 5 seconds b) 20 seconds c) 1 minute
So we don't hurt other's feelings/ so we aren't rude to other people
Why do we use social filters when talking to people?
Jealous
You might feel ________ if you see someone with a new video game that you really want.
True
True or False: You can compromise when two people want two different things.
"You're angry that your favorite shirt is ruined, that really sucks."
Your friend comes to school and is really grumpy. They say they stained their favorite shirt during breakfast that morning. Construct an empathetic response.
Change into a new/clean shirt before leaving the house.
Tip: If you can smell it, so can other people!
If you get dressed in the morning and notice that your shirt smells a little weird, what should you do?
Yes
Tip: you can still try to say it in a nice way!
If my friend says "Does my hair look bad today? Be honest" it is okay to tell her the truth because she asked me to be honest, even if it might hurt her feelings.
Guilty/Sad
John dropped his mom's phone and cracked the screen. Instead of telling the truth, he lied and blamed it on his little sister. How might John feel about lying?
No
Is everything in life fair?
Pity: "I feel bad for you"
Empathy: "I feel with you"
Describe the difference between pity and empathy.
2x a day for 2 minutes
How long and how often should you brush your teeth?
True, Helpful, Important, Necessary, Kind
What does THINK stand for?
Deep breathing, muscle relaxation, distraction, step away, talk to a trusted person, exercise, reframe, music, meditation, engage your senses (grounding techniques)
List three ways to positively cope with anger
Me me me, victim stance, blaming, universals, assuming, lying, acting helpless ("I can't"), etc.
Name two thinking errors that might keep someone from compromising
25 questions / Conversational skills Problem Solving Emotions Size of Problem Virtual Learning 1 similar game
1. ask questions
2. answer questions
3. comment
What are the three rules to follow in a conversation?
answers vary
Someone you met last week called you by the wrong name.
What could you do?
answers vary
Your teacher gives you a compliment for doing a nice job on your assignment.
How do you feel?
answers vary
A classmate cuts you in line.
What is the size of this problem?
answers vary
Your microphone is not working but your teacher asks you a question.
What should you do?
answers vary
If you have something to say during a conversation, but it is off topic, what should you do?
answers vary
You received a new sweater from your grandma, but you don't like it.
What could you do?
answers vary
Your computer crashed while you were working on an assignment and you did not save your work.
How do you feel?
answers vary
You fall off your bike, hit your head, and now don't feel well.
What is the size of this problem?
answers vary
Expected/unexpected behavior: Getting up and leaving in the middle of your teacher teaching
You are in class and your classmate is talking but you have something that you want to say.
What should you do?
answers vary
Your friend is upset with you because you told their secret to the entire class.
What could you do?
You have a big test and you were not able to study as much as you wanted to the night before.
How do you feel?
answers vary
You leave your lunch at home.
What is the size of this problem?
answers vary
Expected/unexpected behavior: You need a break from learning. You ask your teacher if you could have a 5 minutes break and play a computer game. He/she said after you finish your assignment, you can have a 5 minute break.
answers vary
Talk about eye contact during a conversation
You are paired with someone you do not get along with for a group project.
What could you do?
answers vary
You told your friend a secret and he/she told the entire class.
How do you feel?
answers vary
You fell during gym class. You are not hurt, but you feel embarrassed.
What is the size of this problem?
answers vary
Expected/unexpected behavior: turning your camera on and off
answers vary
A classmate keeps talking while you are taking a test.
What could you do?
answers vary
You are in the middle of telling a story and your friend interrupts you and starts telling their story.
How do you feel?
answers vary
You come home from school and notice smoke coming out of the kitchen windows of your house.
What is the size of this problem?
answers vary
You need to use the bathroom but your teacher is in the middle of teaching.
What should you do?
25 questions / Nonverbal True or False Expected or Unexpected? Size of the problem small or big What do you say? How to make Friends True or False 1 similar game
What is TRUE?
When someone is talking, eye-contact is expected nonverbal communication.
What is a BIG PROBLEM?
Your house is on fire.
What is , "Hi, my name is _________. What's yours?"
Introduce yourself to a new student in the class
What is TRUE?
It is important to turn your face and body toward someone when you are talking to them or they are talking to you.
What is a SMALL PROBLEM?
Your pencil breaks
What is a SMALL PROBLEM?
You get a D on a 10 point homework assignment
What is a BIG PROBLEM?
You borrow your mom’s car and get in an accident
What is a Small problem?
You ask a friend to hang out and they say they are busy
What is FALSE?
To make a friend, interrupt your friend while he is talking to someone else.
25 questions / Community Self-Care Daily Living Friendship Misc.
Fire Station
Where do fire fighters work?
Clean our hair and scalp
What does shampoo do?
Who is sending it and where it is going
Who's name goes on an envelope?
No
Do good friends yell at each other?
A raincoat
What should you wear outside if it is raining?
Get a taxi
If I am in a city and I need a ride, what should I do?
Kills odorous bacteria
Why is important to use deoderant?
Look at a clock
How can you tell what time it is?
No
If you're friend asks you to do something and you know it is wrong, should you do it?
Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Purple
Name two colors in the rainbow
Grocery Store
Where would I buy toilet paper, paper towels, and other cleaning supplies?
Detergent
What do you need to wash your clothes?
Calendar
Where can I find the name of the month
Calmly talk to the teacher about it and try harder next time.
Jimmy thinks his teacher made a mistake on his math test. He is upset because the grade he gets will go on his report card.
What should he do?
Puppies
What are baby dogs called?
Red
What color is stop sign?
2-3 times a day
How often should you brush your teeth?
Bring lunch/money with you
If you are leaving your house and won't be home for lunch, what should you do?
Yell at his teacher, walk out of the room
Jimmy thinks his teacher made a mistake on his math test. He is upset because the grade he gets will go on his report card.
What shouldn't he do?
4
What is 2 + 2?
This is where I go to send my mail
To keep our skin clean
Why do we wash our face?
Because it is polite
Why do we use manners?
Wait until his sister is gone to talk about the movie
Robbie and his friend were taking his little sister to the park. His friend wanted to talk about a scary PG-13 movie and know what happened.
What should Robbie do?
L
What letter does _atham start with?
25 questions / Whole Body Listening Asking Questions WHY Expected vs. Unexpected Making Comments
Mouth
What part of your body should be quiet?
Example: Where did you go?
Your friend says:
"My family and I went out of town this weekend."
Ask one on-topic question.
Why do we make good eye contact?
Expected
Your teacher is not in the classroom yet and there is nothing written on the board for you to do. You decide to get your book and read quietly at your desk.
Your friend raised their hand to answer a math problem in class. They got it wrong and are embarrassed. What can you say?
Eyes
What part of your body should be looking?
Example: What is for lunch today?
Your friend says:
"I'm excited for lunch today."
Ask 1 on-topic question.
Why do we not laugh when others are hurt?
Unexpected
Jane tells her mom that she lost her jacket at school because a dog ran onto the playground and stole it.
Your friend is wearing a new t-shirt to school with your favorite TV show character, Scooby Doo, on it. What can you say?
Ears
What part of your body should be listening?
Your friend says:
"I'm so tired after everything I did today."
Ask 1 on-topic question.
Why do we not cry when we lose?
Unexpected
Kyle tells his friends that he found $10,000 in the parking lot at the grocery store.
Your grandma and grandpa come over to your house for Thanksgiving. You haven't seen them for over a year! What could you say to them?
Brain
What part of your body should be paying attention?
Example: What movie did you watch? Did you watch it at home or did you go to the movie theater?
Your friend says:
"I watched my favorite movie last night."
Ask 1 on-topic question.
Why do we talk about other people's interests?
Expected
Patrick was grounded by his parents and can't go to his friend's house. Patrick tells his friend that he can't come over because he got in trouble.
Your mom was baking a cake for a party but it burned. What could you say to her?
Hands and Feet
What 2 parts of your body should NOT be moving?
Example: Why is your dad in Alaska? When will he get home?
Your friend says:
"My dad is in Alaska this week. I miss him."
Ask 1 on-topic question.
Why do we take turns when talking to others?
Unexpected
You get to the cafeteria and see your best friend is already in the line, about ten people away. You cut in line to stand next to him.
Your neighbor is planting new trees and flowers in their backyard. What could you say to them?
25 questions / Feelings Social Skills Coping skills Social skills What can you do? 7 similar games
Sad, confused, or upset
What might you feel if someone you like is ignoring you?
Apologize, say sorry
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Take a break, take deep breaths, positive self talk, etc.
What can you do if you are mad at your teacher?
Hi my name is ____, what is your name?
Demonstrate how you would introduce yourself to a new peer?
You can explain you won't let them copy but you will help them understand the work.
Someone asks you if they can copy your homework. What can you do?
Jealous
How might you feel if your best friend is talking about the new video game they got and it was the game you really wanted?
Give them some advice to not tattle so much, Stand up for your friend, Explain the difference between tattling and telling (etc)
Your friend is tattling on others a lot and others are starting to pick on him. What can you do?
Take a sensory break, run around, take deep breaths, do a mindfulness activity, etc.
What can you do if you are feeling hyper and having a hard time settling down at school?
Find out if you know anyone there, talk to an adult, brave it and remind yourself you can do it, etc.
What would you do if you were nervous about going to a new school?
You can say no thanks or explain that you would like to focus
A peer asks you to do something you know is inappropriate during class, what do you do?
Mad, angry, disappointed, sad (all acceptable answers)
How might you feel if you wanted to go out with friends and your caretaker said you couldn't go?
Suggest that the 3 of you hang out together, hang out with one and then the other, say no to one, but schedule another time for the other, etc.
What can you do if two people ask you to hang out at the same time?
Talk to them about it and explain how you feel, be grateful for what you have, etc.
What can you do if you are feeling jealous of friends?
Somebody shoves you down at recess and laughs. What SHOULD you do?
Be honest, tell them your plans and ask them to reschedule or join what you are doing
A friend invites you to their house, they are excited for you to come over but you already have plans.
Guilt
How might someone feel if they have done something wrong and they know it was wrong?
Ask to video chat with friends, ask to meet a friend outside, call a friend, play video games online with friends
What can you do if you are stuck inside during COVID 19 and you are feeling sad and isolated from friends?
Cry, talk to a friend, talk to your parents, snuggle with a blanket, etc.
What can you do if you are feeling sad at home?
Apologize and ask them to explain why it is offensive.
A friend has said something offensive (accidentally). What can you do?
You can make a plan to stay in contact over the phone and plan visits.
Your friend is moving away and you feel really sad. What can you do?
It was an accident, tell them it is ok just be more careful
You accidentally get hit by a basketball in gym, what do you do?
You can empathize with them or sit with them and offer support
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
Take a deep breath, talk to them calmly and explain your feelings, etc.
What can you do at home when your parents are nagging you to get your chores done and they won't let you take a break?
You have a peer that keeps calling you on the phone but you don't want to be friends with them. What can you do?
Repeat the order in a loud and clear voice, write the order down, ask someone else to tell them, avoid yelling or feeling frustrated.
You are in a loud restaurant and the waiter asks you to repeat your order for the 3rd time, what should you do?
25 questions / Anger Management Coping Skills Social Skills Communication Feelings
What is a trigger
This is something that makes you angry, may cause you to have an outburst
What is to calm you down
Coping skills main purpose is
What is manners
Saying please, thank you and excuse me are called using
What is a quiet voice
This is the appropriate level for in the library
What is emotions
Another word for feelings
What is a physical sign
Red face, sweat, and clenched fists are all this type of sign you are angry
What is at home
Punching a pillow and watching TV are coping skills you can use
What is be respectful, listen politely, problem solve, etc.
When interacting with others it is important to
What is verbal and non-verbal communication
These are the two forms of communication
What is mixed emotions
Having more than one feeling at the same time
What is the source
This is what is really making you angry
What is at work.
Taking a break or talking to a friend are coping skills you can use
What is make plans for another night and accept change.
Your friend asks you to go out with here that night, but then tells you something has come up and she can't go out. What should you do
What is sign language, body language, writing a letter
Examples of non verbal communication
What is arguements and anger outbursts
Being able to tell people how you feel can help prevent
What is the target
Someone affected by your anger, but not causing it.
What are talking to a friend/family member, asking for help
Coping skills for big problems
What is everyone involved
Helping others or being nice makes who feel better?
What is listening
This is an important part of communication, when someone is talking, someone else is
What is having sympathy
Feeling bad for someone
What are consequences
Making bad choices when angry can lead to multiple
What are walking away, ignoring it, taking a break, etc.
Coping skills for small problems
What is having empathy
Understanding and feeling what others are feeling means
What is respectful tone
When answering a question or talking to someone you need to use a
What is an I statement or I message
I feel sad when you don't listen because I'm trying to teach you and I want you to learn is an example of a
25 questions / Pros Cons Social Media 101 Random Pros/Cons Cyber Bullying
What is communication?
Social media can improve this.
What is content?
This can be "misleading" on social media.
What is facebook? (2.45 billion)
This is the top social media site to date
What is exposure?
Social media increases this whether it be positive or negative.
What is instagram?
More youths experienced cyberbullying on this social media site (42%) than any other platform.
What is research?
Social media gives you quick access to information and ___________.
What is self-image?
Social media can lead to these type of issues.
What is instagram?
63% of users on this site are between the ages of 18 to 34
What is Reality?
In the social media world, it's Online vs. ___________?
What is appearance?
Youth (61%) who report being bullied say it was because of their _____________.
What is marketing?
Social media sites can be used as great __________ tools.
What is cyber-bullying?
The more time spent on social media can lead to _____________.
Los Angeles, California
The headquarters of Snapchat (city, state)
What is online learning, job skills or content discovery?
Social media sites such as youtube can help with this.
What is 18?
7 in 10 young people experience cyberbullying before they hit the age of _________.
What is remote employment?
Social media gives an opportunity for this.
What are Interpersonal Social Skills?
These skills can be depleted through social media.
What is 13?
The most active users on instagram are this age.
What is dopamine?
Social Media can be addicting because it can increase this neurotransmitter in our body.
What is a group chat?
Listed as the worst form of online harassment, 35% of people share a screenshot of someone’s status or photo to laugh at them here.
What are Interpersonal Social Skills?
These skills can be enhanced through social media.
What is the Fear of Missing Out.
This has become a common theme in social media.
What is LinkedIn?
44% of users on this social media site have an income above the national median
What is civic engagement? (fundraising, social awareness, provides a voice)
Social media provides the opportunity for involvement here.
What are mean comments? (22.5%)
The most common type of online bullying.
25 questions / I'll answer that Let's be silly Let's talk Telephone time Scenarios
I'm looking forward to ______________ this month.
Pretend to be your favorite animal
BONUS 100 POINTS
What is your favorite sport?
Call and order a pizza
Give an example of positive self talk
EX. Where did you last go on vacation?
Where did you get your toy from?
Where is grumpy bird???
200 Bonus points!
I am really good at...
Show us your best dance move!
Do you have any pets?
Call your friend and invite him/her to the movies.
Name a good tool to use hen you are feeling frustrated
I wish I could...
Pretend you are playing in a band
I would wish for a ________.....
What would you wish for if you found a magic lamp?
Call the dentist to make an appointment
Tell about a problem you have had and how did you deal with it
When I grow up, I want to be a...
Pretend you are playing your favorite video game!
What is your favorite movie?
Call mom or dad and tell them that you forgot your lunch
Tell about a time you saw someone behave unexpectedly at school. What did you think about that?
Something I find difficult is ______________________
Act out a scene and see if your audience can guess what you are doing!
I would ____________.
If you won a million dollars, what would you do?
Call you a family member and invite them over for the holiday
Your friend is upset. What can you say to your friend?
25 questions / Listening Skills Coping Skills Friendship Movie Friends Other 2 similar games
Look at the person (eye contact)
Where should you look when talking to someone?
breath in slowly, breath out slowly
Show me how to take a deep breath
What's one quality you look for in a friend?
Buzz Lightyear
Who is Woody's best friend?
Any compliment to a member of the group :)
Give a member of the group a compliment
When you are listening, keep your hands and feet ______.
Count slowly to five
How are you doing? / Are you feeling okay today?
Your friend looks sad today. What could you ask them?
Dory
Who helps Marlin find Nemo?
I like ______ / Your good at ______
Say something nice about a group member
Face the person, eye contact, hands and feet quiet
Show me whole body listening
Deep breath, counting, talk a walk, take a break, talk to an adult
Name one coping skill you can use to calm down
What is your favorite movie? / Do you like ____ (movie)? etc.
Your friend likes to talk about movies. What is a question you could ask them?
Anna
What is the name of Elsa's sister?
Any stretch break!
Help the group take a break. Lead us in a stretch break.
Look at the person/nod your head/ask questions/make comments
I can do this / It's okay
You are frustrated with your math test. Use positive self talk to calm down.
Can you play Jeopardy with me? / Would you like to play Jeopardy?
How would you ask a friend to play Jeopardy with you?
Mike
Who is Sully's best friend?
Makes a comment about video games.
Make a connected comment. I like to play video games.
Any comment or question about pizza (or food)
Make a connected comment or question to this statement "I love pizza!"
Any coping skill (deep breath, counting, break, listen to music, go for a walk etc.).
Name a coping skill you used this week.
Gives compliments to each member :)
Give each group member a compliment.
Timon and Pumba
Who teaches Simba Hakuna Matata?
What do you like about it? / What's your favorite part? / Who is your favorite character? etc.
Ask a follow up question to this statement. "My favorite movie is Monster's Inc."
24 questions / Social Skills Trivia Hygiene/social skills Health/social skills Safety/social skills
Was a widespread trade of animals, plants, humans, and disease
What was the Columbian Exchange?
I should immedialtly run to the nearest adult to let them know. I can use my phone to call 911.
True or False I really like going to the park bymyself. I notice a stranger following me. What should I do?
I should be prepared, have all my materials ready
When I arrive in class, I should have what?
Was an explorer, discovered the Americas
Who was Christopher Columbus?
What is kindly let them know you are uncomfortable and therfore not going to go. You can let their parents know to avoid them from going to jail.
I like hanging out with my friends after school. One of my friends wants to go to Target to steal some candy. What should I do?
What is False. They may be busy, and repeatedly calling/waiving my hand would be annoying and frustrating to others.
True or False When someone does not quickly respond to my hand being raised, I should repeatedly call on them or waive my hand side to side to get the teachers attention.
How fast an object is moving
What is Speed?
What is True. You should ALWAYS brush!!!
True or False. If I dont brush my teeth daily my teeth will rot and fall off.
What is False. It is great that you are excited! You can think about it all the time if you want to! But, it might be annoying to your friends if you repeat the same thing over and over.
True or false I can NOT stop thinking about my new dog. I should tell everybody about it every time I think about it.
What is C.
All my friends are at a party smoking cigarettes and drinking beer. I don't like the taste of cigarettes or beer but I am really cool and I want my friends to know I am cool. I should:
A. take a picture with the beer or cigarette
B. drink the beer or smoke the cigarette with my friends
C.be a leader and leave the party.
D. take a selfie whilst sticking up my middle finger.
Pyramids
What were the Aztecs known for
What is True. You should shower everyday.
Not taking a shower everyday can make me stinky and everyone will be able to smell me.
What is say "no thanks" and walk away immediately.
I met this really nice person when I was by myself and they asked me to get in the car with them because they have a special surprise. I should
A push or pull
What is a Force?
What is try it anyway, when I'm with my friends anything can be fun.
I DON'T like what we are doing today in class! This is boring! I should react by doing this.
25 questions / Social Skills Role Play Feelings Coping Skills Practice
Talk to him, Use I-statements, share your feelings
A friend has borrowed something from you and hasn't given it back. What can you do?
Negotiate, share feelings, think of options
You and mom disagree on picking up a mess. Act out how you can handle this in a safe and calm manner.
Frustrated, angry, mad, calm
How might you feel if someone accidentally messes up your project in class?
Take deep breaths, go for a walk, wall pushups, squeeze something
Name two ways to calm down when you feel angry or frustrated
Squeeze a lemon, stretch like a cat, hide in turtle shell
Progressive muscle relaxation
Find another toy/game, talk it out, use I-statements
Your mom has a new toy/game that you really like. You ask to see it and she says no. What can you do?
Use I-statements, ignore, walk away, deep breaths, ask teacher for help.
You get into an argument with a classmate about an assignment. Act out how you can take care of this in a safe way.
angry, sad, frustrated, annoyed, happy, excited, embarrassed, silly, tired, hungry, lonely, shy, ecstatic, upset, disappointed
Name 6 emotions
True
True or false: Writing, drawing, coloring, painting, and playing are healthy ways to deal with strong emotions
Lazy 8, stuffed animal, sphere, bubble
Practice two breathing strategies
Share how you feel assertively and respectfully, help them find a different partner
Someone in class wants to be your partner for a project. You don't want to work with them. What can you say?
Use I-statements, share feelings, negotiate. Use coping skills to calm self down to be able to complete the task.
Your mom asks your to clean your room and you don't feel like doing it. Act out how you would handle this in a calm manner. What would help if you need to do it?
Identify body sensations, scale, thoughts
Show me what anger looks like for you
energy hands, butterfly breathing
Mindfulness exercise
Take deep breaths, possibly ask them to help pick it up
Someone in your class bumps into your desk and knocks everything over. How can you respond?
Share feelings, take deep breaths, walk away, tell an adult
You're feeling frustrated and want to throw something. What else can you do? Act it out.
True: emotions are messages from our brain and body about how we feel about a situation
Talk to them, draw about it, play, talk to an adult
You notice your friend is feeling sad and he asks you what he should do. What do you say/do?
Close your eyes and describe in detail
Think of your peaceful place
Take a deep breath. Apologize. Understand their feelings. Ask what you can do to help them feel better.
You threw your friends ball and it is now stuck on the roof and they are really upset with you. What would you do?
Use coping kills to help self be patient- breathing, distract yourself. Ask when they will be available or ready to listen to you.
You are excited about a new book and want to share about it to your family, but they are currently busy. Act out how you can handle this calmly.
Flip our lid, emotion brain takes over and thinking brain takes a break
What happens to our brains when our emotions get out of control?
They help to get better control of our emotions, so you can make healthy decisions, healthy for our brain
Why are coping skills helpful?
5, 4, 3, 2, 1; mindful smelling, mindful eating
Grounding exercise
20 questions / Science Social Studies Language Arts Social Skills
What is hibernation?
The process of sleeping through the winter.
What is the Liberty Bell?
It has a crack in it, but no one knows when it happened.
What are synonyms?
Sad and unhappy are examples of this.
What is empathy?
To have consideration for other people's feelings.
What is your heart?
The organ that pumps your blood.
What is Philadelphia Pennsylvania?
Independence Hall is located in this city.
What are antonyms?
Big and little are examples of this.
What is a clique?
A group of people that exclude others.
What are your lungs?
The organ that helps you breath.
Who is Benjamin Franklin?
He invented the lightening rod, the post office and the fire department.
What is a capital letter?
I come at the beginning of a sentence.
What is unique?
To stand out from the crowd, be yourself.
What is your eye?
The iris is part of this organ.
Who is Abraham Lincoln?
He signed the Emancipation Proclamation.
What is an adjective?
I describe a noun.
What is bullying?
To make fun of others because they are different.
What is the nervous system?
This system controls your body. It is compared to a telegraph line.
What is the Pennsylvania state flag?
I have a blue background, a state shield, two horses and a bald eagle on me.
What is an adverb?
I describe a verb.
What is showing courage, being brave, or being a good friend?
To stand up for others.
Thank you
When someone gives you a present you should say?
Happy
When I smile, I most likely am showing what emotion?
True
Trustworthiness is a good quality of a friend.
Character
What does the C stand for?
Hold the door for them
If someone is walking towards the door to leave the room and you are at the door, you should?
Sadness
If you fall and hurt your knee, what emotion will you show?
Be a good listener
If a friend needs to talk, what should you be doing?
Honesty
What does the H stand for?
Compliment
When someone is wearing a new shirt that you really like you can give them a?
Anger
If your friend breaks your favorite pencil, what emotion will you feel.
Tell anyone else
If a friend tells you a secret you should not...?
Attitude
What does the A stand for?
Nice
If someone is having a bad day you can do something_____for them?
Excitement
When you score the winning goal in your soccer game, you feel? Hint: It starts with the letter E
turns
If your play a game with a friend you should take ______playing?
Motivation
What does the M stand for?
Please
When we would like to ask for something what "P" word would you say?
worried
If you are late coming home, you parents will feel?
Get help
If your friend falls down and scraps his/her knee you should?
Pride and Self Control
What does the P and S stand for?
25 questions / General Knowledge Social Skills Locations Life Skills Fun Facts!
What is 0?
Anything multiplied by 0 will equal this.
What is a handshake?
This is the most common gesture used when meeting someone new.
What is 50?
There are ____ states in the United States.
What is Honesty?
_______ is always the best policy.
What is a Cheetah?
The fastest land animal.
Who is William Shakespeare?
This is the author who wrote Romeo and Juliet.
What is False?
True or False, I am responsible for the way other people feel and react.
What is Augusta?
This is the capital of Maine.
What is Kindness?
Random acts of ________.
What is a tower?
A group of giraffes is called a _____.
What is Red, Yellow, and Blue?
These are the 3 primary colors.
What is nonverbal?
Our body language, facial expressions, and eye contact are considered this form of communication.
What is 7?
There are ____ continents in the world.
What is 2 minutes?
This is the recommended amount of time you should brush your teeth.
What is 10?
A lobster has this many legs.
What is 3?
You should replace your toothbrush every ____ months.
What is eye contact, nodding your head, and/or understanding.
Active listening includes _____.
What is China?
This country is home to the Great Wall.
What is 8 to 12 minutes?
This is the average amount of minutes it takes to cook pasta.
What is Antarctica?
This is the coldest place in the world.
Who is Beethoven?
This is the world's most famous deaf composer.
What is Treat Others How You'd Want to be Treated?
This is considered the "Golden Rule".
What is the Pacific Ocean?
The largest ocean on Earth.
What is 25?
This is the age you can rent a car in most states.
What is an Earworm?
______ is the name for when you have a song stuck in your head.
25 questions / Feelings Manners Social Skills Coping Skills True or False? 2 similar games
If someone is crying, what are they feeling?
Hello! Nice to meet you! My name is ___
When you meet someone new, what do you say?
Say sorry, apologize
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did?
talk to a friend/adult, color, walk away, play a game, scream into a pillow, deep breathing, count to 10, etc.
List ways you can calm down when feeling upset
True
Friends should be good listeners
Happy, Glad
If someone is smiling, what are they feeling?
Could I please use that? Could I borrow that?
When you ask for something what do you say?
Ask to join, ask if your friend wants to play with you afterwards
You want to play a game with a friend who is already playing with another classmate, what can you do?
1, 2, 3
Take 3 deep breaths
False
A good friend always agrees with what I say
Surprised, Scared
If someone's eyes are wide and their mouth is in the shape of an "O", what may they be feeling?
Thank you!
When you receive something from someone else, what do you say?
Talk, ask questions, find out what they like, ask to play, etc.
How can you make a friend?
squeeze hands real tight and imagine you are squeezing a lemon, then release
Do lemon squeezes
False
A good friend lies to me
Is someone is clenching their hands, stomping their feet, face turning red, and breathing fast, what are they feeling?
Are you ok?
Tell them that your feelings are hurt, walk away, play with someone else, talk to an adult
A friend just called you a mean word, what should you do?
Would you rather sing or dance to help yourself calm down?
True
Sometimes friends need to compromise
happy, sad, angry, frustrated, afraid, confused, guilty, worried, ashamed, nervous, etc.
Name all the emotions/feelings you know
I'm sorry!
If you make someone else upset or sad, you say?
helpful, funny, nice, honest, generous, same interests, etc.
Name qualities you want in a friend
deep breathing, stress ball, color, count to 10, think of something funny, etc.
Show us how you like to calm down
False
Everyone you meet is your friend
25 questions / Job Skills Social Emotional Growth Jobs Money skills Misc.
Resume
What is a paper that shows your personal information school and work experience?
Something a person does or something in your environment that will make you feel upset, sad, frustrated or angry.
What is a trigger?
Answers vary
Can you name the jobs that your family has?
50 cents
How much is 10 nickels worth?
Painted all the rooms.
What did Mr. Z do to the inside of his house recently?
Employment
What is another word for when you have a job and get a paid?
Answers vary
Name a trigger that someone might experience.
Answers vary
Name 3 businesses in your community?
20
Connor
20
Who's birthday was on Monday, November 30th, 2020?
How old is he now?
Application
Name a form that you fill out online or in person to apply for a job that you want.
Breathe
What is the first thing you should do when someone or something triggers you?
Warehouse
Where do the big online stores keep their products before they sell them to customers?
100
What is 10 plus 90?
Coffee
What drink can't Mrs. Higbie live without?
a job search
What is it called when you are looking for a job?
Excuse yourself when you feel triggered?
Ask questions before you make assumptions?
What are two more things you should do if taking a breath doesn't work when you are triggered?
answers vary
Name some reasons why you could get fired from a job?
$2.50
If you have $5.00 and you spend $2.50, how much money do you have left?
8
How many reindeer are there on Santa's sleigh team?
Answers vary
What are questions that you may be asked on an interview
Emotional quotient
Emotional Intelligence
What does EQ or EI stand for?
Organization
Technology
other answers may vary
What kind of skills would you need to be an office assistant?
$24
If you go to a restaurant and you purchase a meal for $20 with tax, and you need to add a 20% tip, how much is the total that you should leave?
Exercise
What does Mrs. McCusker do everyday?
15 questions / Money Skills Social Skills Problem Solving
What is a deposit
This word means, putting money into your bank account
It's about the thought behind the gift, not the actual gift or the cost
What does the phrase "it's the thought that counts?"
You are supposed to bring cookies
to the work holiday party, but you
drop them in the mud. What should you do? Is this an emergency?
What is a bill or expense
This is anything that you have to pay for
Eat a little bit even if you are not a fan.
You are invited to a friends house for dinner. You do not like the food. What will you do?
You left cookies in the oven and
forgot to set the timer. You are in
the living room watching TV and
smell something burning. Is this an emergency? What will you do?
What is a deposit slip
This is a slip/piece of paper that you need to fill out to make a deposit
Tell them thank you anyways
If someone give you a gift that you do not like, you should..
You wrote a letter to your pen pal
and put it in the mailbox without
a stamp. Is this an emergency? What will you do?
What is a withdrawal
This word means taking money out or your bank account or paying for something
You are shopping for a gift when
someone bumps into you and you
drop and break a picture frame. Is this an emergency? What will you do?
What is a paycheck
This is something you get/receive for working.
e.g. "I just got my first ____ from work!"
You are doing a secret Santa gift exchange. One person does not have enough money to get a gift. What should you do?
You are shopping at the mall. You
come out to the car to see a window
smashed in and gifts missing from
your back seat. Is this an emergency? What will you do?
25 questions / Coping Skills True or False Benefits Social Skills Misc
deep breathing
This skill will help you calm yourself...but don't do it underwater
TRUE!
Talking to others allows us to share our emotions and problems so that we do not have to go through them alone.
Talking to others about problems in our lives is a healthy coping skill.
d.) all of the above
Which of the following is a benefit of using healthy coping skills?
a.) they reduce stress
b.) they allow us to create better relationships
c.) they allow us to have a healthy mind and body
d.) all of the above
permission
When I ask to go to my friends house I am asking for...
Cheetah
What is the fastest animal in the world?
Triggers
These can cause you to get mad, be sad, or be glad
FALSE!
Some ways that we learn to cope are not healthy for us! (ex: smoking, drinking, gambling, etc.)
True or False:
Every coping skill is healthy.
- Feeling more relaxed
- Having a clear mind to help solve your problems
- Creating healthy relationships with others
- Being able to think about your response to a situation
What are some benefits that you have experienced from using healthy coping skills?
False
Avoiding eye contact is a good social skill in the U.S? True or False
Marndaran Chinese
English is second
What is the most common language in the world/
Negative thoughts or Negative Self Talk
I am unworthy
I am stupid
I am unloved
are examples of...
FALSE!
Coping skills help us work through our problems and emotions. You do not want to avoid these! Avoiding is considered an unhealthy coping skill.
True or False:
Coping skills are used to avoid problems in our lives.
Soul
Exercise helps you stay healthy mentally, physically, and spiritually.
Exercise is a great coping skill that is good for your mind, body, and ____ .
peer pressure
influence or force from members of one's peer group to do something is...
Times Square New York
Where is the most popular tourist spot in the world
Positive Affirmations or Positive Self Talk
I am good.
I am strong
I am loved
are examples of...
TRUE!
When we can cope with problems in our lives, it is easier to focus on everything else that is important to us!
True or False:
Coping skills help you focus on the important things in your life.
- meditation
- talking with someone
- breathing exercises
- exercise
- mindfulness
- yoga
-listening to music
-spending time with friends or family
What coping skills can be used to reduce stress? Name three.
Bullying
What is an intentional behavior that hurts, harms, or humiliates a student
52
How many weeks are in a year
What is a coping skill
The methods a person uses to deal with stressful situations. These may help a person face a situation, take action, and be flexible and persistent in solving problems.
FALSE!
Coping skills create a sense of calmness, confidence, and inner-peace. They are important for your overall health.
True or False:
Coping skills are not important to your well-being.
Coping skills help us work through and process our emotions so that we can reduce the effect that stressors have on our lives.
What do coping skills help us with?
What is be respectful, listen politely, be nice, etc.
When interacting with others it is important to...
Labor Day
What is the U.S holiday Celebrated in September?
25 questions / Social Thinking Skills Zones of Regulation Conversation Skills I Conversation Skills II Cyberskills
Expected behaviors
This type of behavior makes others feel comfortable, safe, and happy.
Red Zone
In this zone, we feel out of control and angry.
Common Interests
When trying to make friends, you should always try to find ______________.
What is "staying on topic"?
You should follow this conversation rule to show that you are interested in the topic that someone is talking about. If you don't follow this rule, people might think you are rude or self-centered.
What is the two message rule?
This rule says you can only text someone two times and then must wait for the person to respond before texting again.
Unexpected behaviors
This type of behavior makes others feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or upset.
Green Zone
In this zone we feel happy and calm.
When someone else is talking to you, you need to share the conversation half of the time, so you're not a ______________.
What is "thinking with your eyes"?
Talking to someone while looking down or around the room means that you are not using this important people skill?
What is a cyberbully?
This is a person who says mean things about you online and tries to hurt you.
What is "Whole Body Listening"?
What is the "Yellow Zone"?
This zone is expected at a sporting event or during PE, but is considered unexpected when you are in the classroom.
Compliments
Saying something that makes other people feel good, special, or appreciated.
What is making connected comments and questions?
When someone is talking you maintain the conversation by doing this?
What is not responding to your messages?
This is how you know someone isn't interested in having a texting conversation with you.
If you don't use keep this part of the body in the group, you won't know what others are talking about.
Blue Zone
When you are in this zone, you might feel "low energy".
What is the past?
When you start a conversation by asking, "What did you do last week", you are asking a question about the _______________.
What is answering your own question?
This is what you do after you ask a person a question (e.g., What did you do over the weekend) in order to keep the conversation going and share you own experience.
What is an upstander?
This is a person who stands up to a bully.
What are weird or uncomfortable thoughts?
Which zone can make others feel the MOST uncomfortable or upset?
What is trading information?
This is the purpose of conversation.
What is the past, present, and future?
When starting a conversation, if you don't know a person's interests you can always ask them a question about these three things...
(Hint: Think of when events occur)
What is tell an adult?
This is what you should do if you are being cyberbullied.
25 questions / Kindness/Empathy Hygiene Social Filter Emotions Compromise
True
True or False: Using kindness and empathy can make you a better friend
Brush
If you don't ______ your hair everyday, it can look wild and unclean.
No
Yes or No: Should we say everything that we think outloud?
Yes
It is your actions that matter!
Is it okay to feel emotions like sad, angry, frustrated, or grumpy?
True
Shoes
When you use empathy, you are putting yourself in someone else's _________.
Might not want to be around you/ won't want to be your friend
What might other people think of you if you don't shower/smell bad?
So we don't hurt other's feelings/ so we aren't rude to other people
Why do we use social filters when talking to people?
Jealous
You might feel ________ if you see someone with a new video game that you really want.
True
True or False: You can compromise when two people want two different things.
True
True or False: opening the door for someone, complimenting someone, and helping someone who dropped something are all examples of kindness.
Plaque and cavities
What happens to your teeth if you don't brush them at least once a day?
No
Yes or no: has this sentence gone through the social filter? "Your picture looks horrible. You didn't even color in the lines and it took you all day to do it!"
Happy/Proud
What emotion might you feel if you get your report card back and see that you got all A's!
Watch a movie that is scary AND funny
Watch one movie tonight and the other another time
Flip a coin to decide
If I want to watch a scary movie tonight, but my friend wants to watch a funny movie...how could we compromise?
empathy
If a classmate comes to school and is really grumpy, the teacher can use _________ to understand why they are so grumpy.
Change into a new/clean shirt before leaving the house.
Tip: If you can smell it, so can other people!
If you get dressed in the morning and notice that your shirt smells a little weird, what should you do?
Yes
Tip: you can still try to say it in a nice way!
If my friend says "Does my hair look bad today? Be honest" it is okay to tell her the truth because she asked me to be honest, even if it might hurt her feelings.
Guilty/Sad
John dropped his mom's phone and cracked the screen. Instead of telling the truth, he lied and blamed it on his little sister. How might John feel about lying?
No
Is everything in life fair?
didn't get much sleep
didn't eat breakfast/ is really hungry
Miss. Makenna didn't get much sleep last night because her kitten was up sick all night. She didn't have time to eat breakfast and she is really hungry. The students notice she is in a bad mood.
Use empathy to understand why Miss. Makenna might be grumpy.
20 seconds
Tip: sing happy birthday in your head to time out 20 seconds!
How many seconds should you wash your hands for?
20 seconds or 5 seconds?
No
When you use a social filter, you aren't lying. You are just using more kind words so you don't hurt anyone's feelings or get yourself into trouble.
Is using a social filter the same thing as lying?
Nervous/ Anxious/ Stressed
You might feel ________ if you have to sing in front of your whole school.
Come up with a new game they both like
Play tag for 15 minutes, then basketball for 15 minutes.
Play separate games.
Sam wants to play tag at recess but Sarah wants to play basketball. How could they compromise?
25 questions / People Skills (Social Skills) Zones of Regulation Conversation Skills Conversation & Social Skills Other
What is expected behaviors?
What is the red zone?
In this zone, we feel out of control and angry. We tend to blow things out of proportion when we are in this zone color.
What is a person's interests?
This is something you can ask about to start a conversation, when you are familiar with the person and have some background information about what they like.
What "stay on topic"?
What is a coping skill?
This skill is anything a person does to keep themselves calm or calm down after a stressful event?
What is unexpected behaviors?
This type of behavior makes others feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or upset. This type of behavior also changes depending on the setting.
What is the green zone?
In this zone we feel happy and calm. In this zone, people are most comfortable around you.
What is active listening?
This is a skill that you use during conversations to SHOW that you are listening and can include nodding or smiling.
What is "thinking with your eyes"?
Talking to someone while looking down or around the room means that you are not using this important people skill?
What is deep breathing?
This coping skills can be used anytime and anywhere and really only requires your lungs, mouth, nose, and of course attention!
What is "thinking with your eyes"?
This skill is used to figure out what people around you are thinking and feeling. If you use this skill correctly, you can give a good guess about what others in the room might be thinking or feeling about you.
What is the yellow zone?
This zone would be okay if you are at a birthday party or a park, but would not be expected if you are at school working on an assignment.
What is a compliment?
This is one way you can start a conversation by making the other people feel good, special, or appreciated.
What is active listening?
When someone is talking and you show that you are listening by saying comments like, "same! cool or wow" you are using this conversation skill.
In order for a situation to be considered "bullying" the bully must have more of this than the victim?
What is using good eye contact, leaning forward, and/or asking questions?
This skill is used when you're in a group and want to show that you are an active participant and paying attention.
What are the yellow and red zones?
In these two zones, people typically have poor control over their emotions and behaviors and therefore, may act unexpectedly or even mean.
What is the past?
When you start a conversation by asking someone "What did you do last week", you are asking a question about the____.
What is say hello?
Make sure you do this before starting any conversation!!!!
What is counting or breathing to calm down?
This is something a person can do to calm down that involves numbers?
What is using good eye contact and using our brain to think about how to join in?
You need to use this skill whenever you walk into a new situation or room so you can figure out what is expected to do and say.
What is how you monitor your behavior reflects on how others perceive you.
You're feelings are always okay, just make sure to monitor your behavior!
What is the purpose of knowing what zone you are in given specific situations?
What is taking turns talking?
This is a conversation rule you should always follow if you don't want people to think you're dominating the conversation.
What is past, present, and future?
What is mindfulness or being mindful?
This is a coping skill that can be practice anytime and anywhere that involves being present in the moment and acknowledging your thoughts and feelings WITHOUT any judgement.
25 questions / Imagine If... Top 3 Finish the sentence... Wishes YOU!
Imagine if trees could talk. What are two things you think they might say?
What are the top 3 best smells?
On the weekends, I...
I wish I had the ability (superpower) to... because...
How have you positively affected someone else's day today?
Imagine if birds could talk. What are two things you think they might say?
What are the top 3 words that describe you?
My family...
How have you taken care of your body today?
Imagine if you had the opportunity to start your life over in a new place with a new identity. What would your new name be and where would you live?
What are the top 3 best foods ever created?
A mistake I've made before is...
but it's okay, because I learned...
How have you taken care of your mind/brain today?
Imagine if you could create a new holiday. What would it be called and what would it be about?
What are the top 3 most beautiful things in the world?
I am proud of myself because...
Something I wish I could control is...
What is one thing you can do to make yourself happier today?
Imagine you can time travel, but only in one direction. Would you choose to be able to travel forward in time or backwards in time?
What are your top 3 pet peeves (things that annoy you)?
I am a great friend because...
Something I wish I was better at is...
What are 3 things you're grateful for today?
20 questions / Social Skills Behaviors Tolerance Random
What is healthy communication skills?
Listening, speaking, paying attention, and empathizing are examples.
What is passive behavior?
Not advocating or standing up for yourself.
What is False?
True or False. Tolerance means always agreeing with other people.
What is ____________?
Something you avoid.
What is active listening?
Listening attentively while someone else speaks, paraphrasing and reflecting back what is said, and withholding judgment and advice.
What is aggressive behavior?
Being pushy and disrespectful of others.
What is tolerance?
Accepting someone as an individual.
What is _____________?
Something you are thinking about when you're happy.
What is False?
True or False. It is always easy to tell how someone is feeling based on their body language.
What is empathy?
Understanding someone else's feelings from their point of view.
What is True?
True or False. Respecting others' cultural traditions is a way to show tolerance.
What is ____________?
Something adults want you to do differently.
What is assertiveness?
Expressing thoughts and feelings in a confident, respectful way.
What is being not empathic?
Interrupting a friend to talk about your own problems when they're sharing with you an emotionally painful experience.
What is tolerance?
Acceptance of an action, idea, object, or person which you disagree with.
What is ___________?
Something you can do easily without thinking about it.
What is behavior?
How you choose to act.
What is a way to develop empathy?
Becoming aware of why others may act in a way you don't always understand.
What is ___________?
Three characteristics of being a good friend.
____________.
Share about a time you blamed yourself for something that wasn't your fault.
25 questions / People Skills (Social Skills) Zones of Regulation Conversation Skills Conversation & Social Skills Other
What is expected behaviors?
This type of behavior makes others feel comfortable, safe, and happy. This type of behavior changes depending on the setting you're in.
Option 1: What is unexpected behaviors?
Option 2: What is expected behaviors?
What is the red zone?
In this zone, we feel out of control and angry.
Option 1: What is the yellow zone?
Option 2: What is the red zone?
What is a person's interests (things they like)?
This is something you can ask about to start a conversation, especially when you know the person and what they like.
Option 1: What is a person's interests (things they like)?
Option 2: What is telling someone to "Go away!"
What is "staying on topic"?
You should follow this conversation rule to show that you are interested in the topic that someone is talking about. If you don't follow this rule, people might think you are rude or self-centered.
Option 1: What is talking only about my favorite things?
Option 2: What is "staying on topic"?
What is a coping or self-calming skill?
This skill is anything a person does to keep themselves calm or calm down after a stressful event?
Option 1: What is a coping or self-calming skill?
Option 2: What is yelling, crying, and stomping around the room?
What is unexpected behaviors?
This type of behavior makes others feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or upset. This type of behavior also changes depending on the setting.
Option 1: What is unexpected behaviors?
Option 2: What is expected behaviors?
What is the green zone?
In this zone we feel happy and calm. In this zone, people are most comfortable around you.
Option 1: What is the green zone?
Option 2: What is the blue zone?
What is active listening?
This is a skill that you use during conversations to SHOW that you are listening and can include nodding or smiling.
Option 1: What is ignoring people and being rude?
Option 2: What is active listening?
What is "whole body listening"?
Talking to someone while looking down or around the room means that you are not using this important people skill?
Option 1: What is "I'm doing my own thing and that's ok!"
Option 2: What is "whole body listening"?
What is deep breathing?
This coping (self-calming) skill can be used anytime and anywhere and really only requires your lungs, mouth, nose, and of course attention!
Option 1: What is screaming?
Option 2: What is deep breathing?
What is "thinking with your eyes"?
This skill is used to figure out what people around you are thinking and feeling. If you use this skill correctly, you can give a good guess about what others in the room might be thinking or feeling about you.
Option 1: What is daydreaming?
Option 2: What is "thinking with your eyes"?
What is the yellow zone?
This zone would be okay if you are at a birthday party or a park, but would not be expected if you are at school working on an assignment.
Option 1: What is the blue zone?
Option 2: What is the yellow zone?
What is giving a compliment?
This is one way you can start a conversation by making the other people feel good, special, or appreciated.
Option 1: What is giving a compliment?
Option 2: What is talking about myself?
What is "active listening"?
When someone is talking and you show that you are listening by saying comments like, "Same! Cool! or Wow!" you are using this conversation skill.
Option 1: What is "active listening"?
Option 2: What is ignoring the person and rolling my eyes?
What is remember things they've told me about themselves?
When I get to know someone, I can do this to grow our friendship?
Option 1: What is remember things they've told me about themselves?
Option 2: What is pretend like I don't care that much?
What is "brain and body in group"?
This skill is used when you're in a group and want to show that you are an active participant and paying attention. This skill also shows that you are thinking about the same thing as the rest of the group.
Option 1: What is "brain and body in group"?
Option 2: What is looking out the window?
What are the yellow and red zones?
In these two zones, people typically have poor control over their emotions and behaviors and therefore, may act unexpectedly or even mean.
Option 1: What are the green and blue zones?
Option 2: What are the yellow and red zones?
What is the past (it's already happened)?
When you start a conversation by asking someone "What did you do last week", you are asking a question about the____.
Option 1: What is the past (it's already happened)?
Option 2: What is the future (it hasn't happened yet)?
What is say "Hello"?
Make sure you do this before starting any conversation!!!!
Option 1: What is dance?
Option 2: What is say "Hello"?
What is getting enough sleep, eating fruits and vegetables, and getting exercise?
These three healthy choices I make can help me stay calm, happy, and in the green zone.
Option 1: What is staying up late, eating lots of sugar, and playing video games all day/night?
Option 2: What is getting enough sleep, eating fruits and vegetables, and getting exercise?
What is "thinking with your eyes"?
You need to use this skill whenever you walk into a new situation or room so you can figure out what is expected to do and say.
Option 1: What is "thinking about myself"?
Option 2: What is "thinking with your eyes"?
What is "all of them!"?
You're feelings are always okay and all feelings are okay, just make sure to monitor your behavior!
It is perfectly fine to be in which zone(s)?
Option 1: What is "you should always stay in the green zone"?
Option 2: What is "all of them!"? You're feelings are always okay and all feelings are okay, just make sure to monitor your behavior!
What taking turns when talking?
This is a conversation rule you should always follow if you don't want people to think you're dominating the conversation.
Option 1: What is interrupting and hogging the conversation?
Option 2: What is taking turns when talking?
What are past, present, or future things they like or want to do?
When starting a conversation, if you don't know a person's interests you can always ask them a question about these things...
Option 1: What are past, present, or future things they like or want to do?
Option 2: What is asking them really personal questions that make them feel uncomfortable?
What is mindfulness or being mindful?
This is a coping skill that can be practiced anytime and anywhere that involves being present in the moment and acknowledging your thoughts and feelings WITHOUT any judgment.
Option 1: What is mindfulness or being mindful?
Option 2: What is ignoring problems and feelings?
25 questions / Independent Living Health and Safety Social Skills Work Skills Community Safety
No, it can catch on fire.
Is it safe to put tin foil in the microwave?
How many times a day should you brush your teeth?
False, you should never hug someone without asking first
True or False: You can hug someone without asking first.
A job is place where you work in exchange for money.
What is a job?
False. Most bussing services have a cost associated with the service and the hours are limited in many cities.
A city bus is a free service that anyone can access at any time.
Washing machine
Dryer
Laundry detergent
Dryer sheets
What do you need to wash your clothes?
True
True or False: You should wear your mask in public.
No, you should not talk with your mouth full.
It is polite to talk with your mouth full of food?
An interview is when you sit down with an employer of a place you want to work and talk about your skills and strengths and the job you would like to have.
What is an interview?
Look both ways to make sure there are no cars coming.
What should you do before you cross the street?
Microwave
Toaster Oven
Oven
What appliances can you use to heat up food?
Name three healthy foods
No, you should ask your friends about their interests.
When talking with a friend, should you only talk about your own interests?
A resume is a write up of your education, work experience, strengths and volunteer experience.
What is a resume?
Go up to the person and ASK if it is ok if you help them. Make sure they are not hurt or in pain that requires medical assistance and help them with their groceries ONLY if they give you permission.
When out in the community, you notice someone who has fallen and has dropped their groceries. What is a proper response to this situation?
Leave the house if possible and get as far away as possible
Call 911
If there is a fire in your house, what should you do?
To stay at least six feet apart from other people, no touching(hugging, high fives)
What does it mean to social distance?
"That makes me uncomfortable/upset, can we talk about something else?"
"That's hard for me to talk about, lets change the subject."
What is a polite way to tell someone what they are talking about is upsetting you?
No, volunteering is work you do without receiving payment.
Do you get paid to volunteer?
Yes
After returning from being out in the community, should you wash your hands?
Turn off the stove.
If you are cooking pasta on the stove, what is the first thing you should after you finish cooking?
Before you eat
After you eat
After you use the bathroom
When you come in from outside
After going to a store/public place
Name three times you should wash your hands
Say hi
Wave
Ask them how they are
When someone enters the room you are in you should...
Time management
Organization
Good judgement
Reliable
Hard working
Passionate
Motivated
Name three work skills.
Call someone from your group
Call your mom/dad
Stay where you are, do not keep walking around
Look for a safe stranger - police, fire fighter, EMT
When out in the community, if you are lost or do not know where your group/family is, what can you do?
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